Male Anal & Prostate 101

[SexySlave]

Hi i am new to the forums but i have a question? Me and my wife have tried anal play a few times. I do enjoy my wife violating my anus and it intensified my climax. Now she is afraid that i am gay. I explained to her that i was not gay. That she would be surprised at how many men actually enjoy their wife or girlfriend inserting a finger into his anus. That it was more common than she thought.
My question is:
How do i explain to or show her how common it is?

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. Clicking on the site's Home page will provide even more information.

I recommend that the two of you read the following articles:

Male / Female Sexual Behavior--If I like certain things does this mean I'm Gay?

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

As for how popular the activity is, use your favorite internet search engine and ask. You can also go to a local adult store or seach on line for sex toys and dildos. Click on the site's Home page for more information, also.

Anal play can range between fingering outside and just inside the anus for both genders, to prostate massage for for guys, to inserting dildos, to intercourse.

Being "Gay" is all about sexual attraction, not what form of stimulation is found to be pleasurable.

[Luckyman]

I am a male in my late 20's and have an amazing gf of just over two years now. We have a great sex life and im very happy with her. A wile back she introduced me to anal sex wich we both enjoy. Eventually she expressed interest in anal play with me. She started with just using one finger on me and then upgraded to two fingers. It was scary at first and it took a lot of trust but I did enjoy it. It took me some time but I started to relax and understand that me liking this did not make me gay and there was nothing wrong with enjoying anal stimulation. As I began to get more comfortable with it she started using toys on me wich also felt good. We have a strap on that is designed for me to use on her for double penatration wich she likes from time to time. Its really hot by the way. Anyway, I opeaned up one day and asked if she would ever like to use the strap on to do me in the ass. She seemed very excited by the idea. We just tryed it for the first time the other night and it was incredible. She pounded my ass for at least a half hour. We started out in the doggy style position and tryed a bunch of other positions after that. After a wile she really got the rhythm of it and I would back myself up onto the dildo as she rode me to let her know how into it I was. I loved every second of it and she really enjoyed the power of the role reversal. She had the biggest smile on her face. It was great. We will definitely be doing that again.

[ClosetFreak]

Absolutely wonderful forum/web site. I have found this very interesting and informative thank you to every one who has posted comments/ideas.

I am a strait guy and have been married 13 years now and when my wife and I first got together I was very taboo about the anal region on both of us. This forum topic has made me curious and we have started talking about exploring our sex life further.

My 2 cents: If a guy has an intament sexual experience with his wife that involves the anus this dose not make you homosexual. If you are comfortable with her and this is pleasing to you both then you should be ok with it. Don't let your ignorance hinder your sex life. You have a limitless amount of information at the click of your mouse. USE IT!

[selfsuckcuri]

Just try to convince her that that is normal