Male Anal & Prostate 101

[opn2new]

I have been tring to find a way to get my wife to play with my ass, well my wife said she was thinking of buying his and hers ky jelly and I seen the perfect opportunity, I said I want something eatable and got the laptop out and found some toy web sites. Well after looking at the lubes we started looking at the toys and we ended up looking at anal toys. Well she was pretty turned on thinking of stuff for her but I needed to get her into thinking of anal for me. I typed anal in the google bar and said what should I add and she says orgasm so I type that in and it comes up with all kinds of hits about the prostate and milking it. She asked if I would like to do this then I told her about when I went to the doc and he examined my prostate buy sticking his fingers up my ass and I told her how it almost made me cum and how precum was just running out. Well we decided to get some toys and a anal douche but I showed her strap ons and she thought that was weird but if I take baby steps I think I will have her using a strapon on me soon. We started having sex and she started rubbing my ass and put a finger in just a little bit because her arms are to short but when she did that she started cumming, this was a great surprise she likes it as much as I do. GOOD TIMES AHEAD. I'll keep you posted on new delvelopments.

[Assyrian.angel]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now.. And we love to try new things. I've always wanted to surprise him with new things I do, and the both of us are very kinky. We love biting, and it turns him on when I bite him(really hard) and when he bites me also. I've been quite curious about the male prostate gland.. And I've always wanted to try it on him(when he's blind folded) but i'm afraid of not hitting his spot.. and just making the situation uncomfortable.
Also, I'm not sure what position I should have him in? I want to try this out, but i don't want to tell him my idea because I'd like it to be a surprise. I don't know what most men would be comfortable doing(position wise).

[stormyxoasis]

i have a question? i have nails...not too long and they are real, but it feels wierd if i play with myself. Would it feel wierd to a guy, do i need to cut off my nails?

For a while my boyfriend wouldnt even considered anal stimulation on him, but hes into the idea now. I on the other hand have been chickening out lately...i feel very starnge with the idea, but i want to be comfortable about it eventuatlly. What if he likes it alot and wants it all the time....i dunno.

[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by stormyxoasis

i have a question? i have nails...not too long and they are real, but it feels wierd if i play with myself. Would it feel wierd to a guy, do i need to cut off my nails?

For a while my boyfriend wouldnt even considered anal stimulation on him, but hes into the idea now. I on the other hand have been chickening out lately...i feel very starnge with the idea, but i want to be comfortable about it eventuatlly. What if he likes it alot and wants it all the time....i dunno.

Bare minimum cut your nails down and use either a condom on the finger or latex glove. The anus can be damaged with anything sharp or pointed. Go VERY slow, lots of lube.

As to your second question about him liking it TOO much . . . . well, that's the risk you take.

[rosebanks]

My boyfriend passed comment the other day saying, when he has had a finger up his anus while recieving head, he came almost instantly, he really enjoyed it, i want to do this for him, but im not entirely sure how.. will my finger just go in automaticaly? or will it take some time? do i move it in and out? how far in do i go? also, would i get "dirt" on my finger??

[DVDBear]

Ask him what he likes. Also, read up on the prostate . . . where's it's located, how to GENTLY massage it and so on. It's not very far in, usually around 2". As far as "dirt", it depends on when he last vacated his bowels. Most of the time no, but again I recommend a condom over the finger.

[jaketanner]

my girlfriends were not receptive initially but after we had it, they appreciates it a few even likes it. I guess the experience at the first time is very important - it either opens up your option (when you likes it) or you get totally put off and never want to do it again.

The trick is to learn everything about it so you know what to expect - and of course, dont rush it and take the time to really enjoy it.


JT

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[Bushidokaizen]

I'm willing to try, which won't turn me or make me gay, but I'm willing to try anal or prostate stimulation. just depends on the situation and which girl is helping me out with this. I'm not going to have a guy there for personal reasons and yeah.

Men's have prostate which is why it makes anal more pleasurable than women

[dancingdoc2]

Well, Bush- you can always stimulate your own prostate. If you are of average build and not husky or fat, you should be able to reach it yourself when the time is right. The right time for all this is when you are very highly aroused, not before. Please read the article on all this and more listed in the Index.

[phinman013]

The wife and I have a very interesting playtime position that involves anal. A few years back I bought her a very nice ($135) pyrex dildo. She does not like anything that vibrates, but she loves this. Then a few months later she bought me a trim anal pyrex dildo. After many positions we sometimes end up in this reverse doggie position. To describe she is on her back with her legs pulled up and then I am facing away from her where I back in and enter her with my legs astride of her. After a few minutes she will begin to use the anal dildo on me and I have the MOST INTENSE orgasms you could believe. I sometimes feel like I will pass out. It is a real workout for me with this postion. It is sometimes like about 50 pushups for me, but it is worth it.