Male Anal & Prostate 101

[0perat0r]

I'm a straight guy in my mid 20's and after dating a girl who was quite adventurous - interested in doing this not only to her, but to me - i've found myself being turned on by the thought of using toys in this area of my body.

I've been wandering around the net to find out whether other men do this and this forum has brought a little relief that i'm not the only one who's got a girl who wants me to try this.

I've never had homosexual thoughts or desires, so my masculinity or hetrosexuality I don't feel is in question here. Rather, the question of safety and frequency with which other straight men do this with their significant other.

I'm glad to see others are and they enjoy it ...*phew*

She has ordered a few things, though I admit i'm a bit anxious/nervous about the experience - hopefully it won't be as weird as I think it will be.

Glad this topic is here...saves me the trouble of making a thread.

[DVDBear]

I know you wanna hear from straight guys, but I'll just make one comment. RELAX. Or you will NOT enjoy it. Approach it with an open mind. There are many threads here about how to properly enjoy this activitity and it sounds like your girlfriend is familiar with it as well. Educate yourself and get in a good relaxed mental space when you two actually do it. And of course . . . . lots of lube.

[dancingdoc2]

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

[tasty]

Im hooked personally. Im as straight as they cum, and I have been using anal stimulation with the last few partners, and even before that on my own.

Theres nothing gay about it, Im not putting a guys dick in me theres only a woman involved. Dont be so damn homophobic people and just be comfortable in your sexuality. If it gets you off then whatever who cares.

Something that can milk the prostate really helps. The extra pressure back there forces me to have incredibly immense orgasms. If I try to use something larger than I should it hurts but its like I have no room inside and almost "leak" cum as I go. You can feel it harden and get huge right before I finish. My girlfriend stimulates me and usually if weve been having sex for a long time she uses that trick so we can both "have our cookies" heh

We use anal stimulation on her too and its just a slim small vibrator - makes her cum A LOT easier and harder.

Its taboo but so what, look at europe - isnt it something around 50% of married couples regularly engage in anal sex or play? I forget where I heard the statistic or the actual number, but it was significantly higher than one would expect.

[selfsucker]

I still havent tried with any partners yet, but when I masturbate I usually insert a dildo in my ass. Usually its while Im performing autofellatio.

anybody intrested insane4cky@aol.com

[calusari]

I just bought a vibrating prostate massager to use with my guy; he's never had a woman use a toy on him, so it's kind of like having sex with a virgin to me:-) Anyway, am I setting myself up for disappointment thinking that it's going to be his best orgasm ever? I plan on giving him head first, and then using the toy on him during that...any advice?

[fock_her]

calusari, I am sure it will be an experience to remember. Just remember when you were a virgin and needed a little time to loosen up. Get some good lube and go at it.

I love it when my wife ventures back there. We do not have a prostate massager, she has a vibrating strap on just for that. I have some of the best orgasms ever when she bends me over.

[calusari]

I used the massager on him a couple of days ago, and I was certainly happy with his response:-) I was very careful with him since he'd never had anyone do that to him before, and he really got into it. It was AWESOME! I definitely recommend the use of a prostate massager. It is not very wide, so it's not intimidating for the guy (mine said it was just the right size), and he LOVED it!!

[Sorena]

Definitely do as calusari said, go out and buy a prostate massager if you haven't already. No bull****, no homo but I've just recently started up using mine and figured out how to just work out the pubococcygeus as opposed to just ****ing around with it. Honest to god (GOD) I've gotten about an 1/2" to about 1" of added erection length while working out with it. **** viagra, **** cialis, **** pumps, **** all of that ****. I'm not lying to you when I say that in only the last say one month I've truly seen a huge increase in my penis size both flaccid and erect. Words alone cannot describe how it is to actually hold my penis after a workout. I'm telling you folks, especially all the men looking to get up in the **** dept DO NOT SLEEP ON THE PROSTATE. I'm done saying my two cents. Peace out for now, so long to the losers who are watching the boat and time slip away.

[laydeerae]

i was always curious as to if my man like to receive anal... he loves to do it to me, and one day he asked if i would do it to him while i was going down on him. i used a jelly dildo, and he enjoys it. it takes some getting used to to be able to do it to a man, but it actually really turned me on and he came very quickly. the next thing i am going to try is to get a strap on and do it that way.