Male Anal & Prostate 101

[lovemuffin]

My bf and I tried anal stimulation for him, and he enjoyed it. I just bought an anal vibe for him.
His first experience I used my finger to explore and he loved it. We talked more about it and now we are graduating to the vibe for him, we use my 7 inch vibe on me for anal play, which was huge step after a past experience.
We are also thinking about trying rimming.

[adamscountry]

My husband and I finally tried anal sex after wanting to for a long time.It was great after the pain.On another note...I want to use a finger on him when I Give him oral... just not sure how to start. Yes anal was great and I will do it again.

[oldkinky]

My wife always uses an anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. I never thought that I would like this until a number of years ago when I began to understand the prostate. I had hangups about trying anything like this, but once I tried it I loved it and realized there is nothing gay about it.

[SexySass69]

My boyfriend and I love love love anal play. We agree that we both have had possivly the best orgasms of our lives when there was some back door action. The best one for him was when I had him up on his knees giving him a hand job and then had him take over while I worked on his prostate by making a "come hither" motion. He said it was uncomfortable at first but was begging for more within an hour. Anal sex is great too. Just remember that you need to be relaxed, for first timers I recommend a variation on missionary with a massage for the receiving partner. Have fun with you butt-y!

[lani4500]

my husband and me both enjoy anal play and regularly use dildos and other toys on each other, our latest thing is for me to wear a strap on dildo 6in x2in and f... him, our favorite position for anal penetration is him on his back, me on top with his legs up on my shoulders. by way 2inches is too much for my rear end, but he seems to lap it up

[coveresid]

I like some anal play and have even had my wife insert her finger a few times. She hasn't accepted anal very well though as far as giving or recieving, but has allowed some play. I have tried a butt plug and it was nice, so would be open to additional play back there from the wife. She also enjoys it when I rub her anus and she has allowed me to insert fingers at times. She also like me to move down after giving her some oral sex and use my tongue in the area. Then she needs a finger. Have tried anal intercourse by playing around back there, but haven't done any deep insertion. A few times while I was rubbing her anus with my penis she got so hot that she started to put pressure on my penis so the head would go in. Had the head of my penis in and she kept moving it slightly in and out, but didn't want it any deeper. Felt so good to me and she was moaning and I could feel everything tighten as she orgasmed. I pulled out and shot cum all over her ass. I don't think she would ever go to a strap on to do me. She doesn't really like toys at all. Would love to be recieving a bj and have some finger play. That sounds nice. We will keep venturing into this at times.

[clare33]

I really want to give my boyfriend anal play when I'm giving him a blow job and during other stuff. I know it will make his orgasms so much more intense and so I really want him. He gives it to me all the time, and I love it so much. Before I was in a long term relationship with him, I never really thought I would like anal play that much. But with him, I love it.

[lisa_t]

have a great success with the pantra. A prostate toy from the Uk. http://www.prantra.co.uk

[bruins76]

I just want to share something since I can't stop thinking about it.

I've been w/ my DH for over 2 years, I LOVE anal play on me when we are being intimate. I've said MANY times how much I've wanted to "return" the favor on him & he'd always say "no way, no how, don't ever think of it"...

Well... he has changed his mind. When I give him blow-jobs I started to lick/suck his balls...and slightly touch his prostate while doing this. Wow...he has changed his idea on that one. Not only does he lift his bottom up more for me to "get to that area" the other day he finally said out-loud "play & lick my ass"...HOLY SH*T! I almost died, it was such a turn on that he finally allowed me to do that to him. I want to do it again & again & again.

Sooo...if you are trying to get your man to do "that" or want "that" then I'd suggest doing something similar to get him to want that like mine did. For 2 year's he's been saying that his "area" (anal) was off limits cause he didn't "swing" that way, homephobic, anyways...he's finally realized (from my good touch/tongue) that enjoying anal/prostate play doesn't mean that you are "gay", it just means that you are normal & holly cow, it feels freaking great!

I just had to add this story here cause as I said I've wanted to explore this on him for 2+ years & now that he's allowed me too, it's takin' our sexual relationship to a whole new level, it turns me on just thinking about it. In fact I think I may have to double click "my" mouse before I head out the door this morning (we're renovating our dream home & he's not here to play w/ me)...that's okay though

[Openmindedguy]

My wife does'nt like it much. Maybe a finger or two, but anything more is too painful. I have bought her a strap-on to use on me the size looked alright in the pictures, but the reality is a bit different..........a six inch real size dildo is just too much for the average guy........something slim and smooth is far easier with plenty of lube.....having a girl at you back door is incredibly erotic and confusing at the same time.but the vunrability and intamacy is fantastic. party on.