Blow-job Techniques 101

[mspersia82]

Some of my ideas:

Whatever dick won't fit entirely in your mouth, stroke it with one hand so he feels fully enveloped. Use the other hand to massage his balls at the same time.

Take his dick as far into the back of your mouth or throat as you can and swallow several times.

Swirl the tongue around the head of his dick on the upward suck while it's in your mouth.

Move your head in circles while his dick is in your mouth. The back of your throat will massage his dick and feel very good to him.

Look him in the eye while you suck him.

Moan while you suck him.

Swallow him.

After he cums, hold his dick in your mouth for a minute or so. Then give him one last gentle suck as you take it out.

Keep your teeth covered at all times so you don't hurt the poor man.

[anne]

hey i just read one really good oral article by someone from anohter site.lol
the website is thesexden.com i found it on the first page and tried what i read with my b/f and he really liked it so i think its prolly not a bad article. i liked it lol

[sexysarah]

okay...well i really need some help here, not having much experience in this area. *i am keen and eager but am worried about looking like i have no idea what i am doing (which i don't).

the more i read, the more confused i am. *a blowjob doesn't involve sucking or blowing, to suck like i'm sucking a lolly...everything seems to contradict or doesn't give enough detail. *so can someone please explain stuff in detail for a novice like me (or direct me to somewhere).

thanks!

[demonbuttercup]

yeah you don't actually blow. i never understood why it was then called a blowjob.
you do suck tho. imagine how it is when you eat a popsicle. how you are kind of sucking on it and pushing it into your mouth.
blowjobs also have a lot to do w/ the tongue. focusing attention on the head w/ it. as well as other areas.

[RedHotQuixote]

Hi,

I'm a guy with a particularly stubborn cock and GFs often have to finish me with a BJ after sex as I rarely cum in the pussy. Here's what I find works for me:

I like to be stood and I like the GF to be on her knees when she blows me. It's not about dominance (at least not for me) but quite simply the position in which my cock feels most comfortable and excited being blown. It's a position that also improves the excitement and possibilities of a BJ in plenty of other ways, for example:

1) For the guy the sheer excitement of looking down and watching the gal at work is priceless - the visual counts for plenty - and for both the eye contact both during the BJ and during his orgasm is intensely erotic.

2) I like to know I can hold her head tightly (tugging on her hair if she likes that) and thrust my hips freely as I get excited. A BJ can start so so sensual, but for me to cum it really has to reach the so so physical - and at a maddening pace. Just how much thrusting and tugging goes on depends on the moment and on the lovely lady on her knees, but a hectic rhythm is what lures the best orgasm out of my stubborn cock.

So yes, I need a gal to be very physical - both with her mouth and with her hands. Once I'm excited the subtleties are lost on me - I need to feel a gals mouth working hard and *very* firmly on my cock, but I also need her to be using her hand to be jacking me off into her mouth as she works. This is not about teasing or sensuality at this stage, it's only about getting the cum to burst from my cock. Very physical. Very firm. Lots of eye contact.

Once I start to cum I like the GF to keep jacking my cock into her mouth to milk me. Her rhythm can be slower now (it will have been very fast up to the point that I burst) but some rhythm should be maintained and her lips kept tight to my cock until I'm finished.

As one of the ladies on this thread also mentioned a slow disengagement is the most erotic... After my orgasm I like the GF to so gently suck and lick at my cock and stroke my shaft - but nothing too hard at this point as my cock will be very sensitive after cumming.

I'll admit that the above are very particular to me, and the sheer level of physicality involved is based purely on the fact that my cock will not cum otherwise.

Ciao!

[missgiggles]

I've always fantasised about giving a guy a blowjob..but I'm actually quite intimidated...scared of the actual act.

I'm scared of the moment when he actually cums..I'm not sure I want him to cum in my mouth? Is that..selfish? What if its 'rude' to want to stop before he cums..? Any advice?

[demonbuttercup]

milking is like after he cums you don't just stop sucking or stroking.
after he cums you slowly stroke and gently squeeze his penis to literally "milk" all the semen out. you can suck lightly too. he's sensitive so be gentle. lol.
at least thats my definetion of it.

[i just fall into the meadow]

RedHotQuixote, thanks.. you gave very good pointers, and its good to hear what a guy likes from a guy.

[stillavirgin]

Hi. I'm new to this. I keep seeing "dp" on the boards. What is "dp"? Thanks.

[vagabondprince]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ Aug. 16 2004,11:01)]you do suck tho. imagine how it is when you eat a popsicle. how you are kind of sucking on it and pushing it into your mouth.

i don't know why, but when my ex decided to start trying to give blow jobs she wouldn't suck. She did a lot with the tongue, but never sucked. I told her to suck on it like she'd suck on a lollipop and she said she was never a fan of those, so later i told her to suck on it like you suck on a straw trying to drink a thick milkshake. she tried for a couple of seconds, but then stopped. she never tried giving a blowjob for more than a couple of minutes anyway, which was very frustrating. she sucked (not in the literal sense) at giving blowjobs.