Blow-job Techniques 101

[Rawbob]

Hi Ouch, The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that produces the seminal fluid which mixes with the sperm in the testicles to make SEMEN.

Now, that glad is also a source of INCREDIBLE SEXUAL PLEASURE when stimulated.

Where is it? Ok, have you man lay on his back..and bring his knees to his chest. Now, using ALOT OF LUBE on your fingers, gently insert either your pointer finger or your middle finger, slowly into his anus.

Once you are fully inserted, feel UPwards for a walnut size protrusion on the upper part of his anus. Move your finger around - using the "come here" technique. You know, how you use your finger to tell someone to "come here?" Well..if you put your finger all the way in...keeping it at the very top of the anus and do the "come here" technique, you'll feel a "bump" and that is his PROSTATE.

When you hit it, you'll know...most likley he'll tell you because his first feelings will be the tightness of your finger in his anus, but when you hit his prostate, he'll feel almost an initial need to "pee" but its actually just him getting used to it.

Prostate massage, in conjunction with oral sex will provide your lover with a feeling not many men have the guts to even try..but once he does, he'll always want it!

[Junocozmos]

Personaly, I use all that I can. My hands, tongue, lips, face...you name it. I dp too, but my husband in particular doesnt like it every time. Its like a special treat. Anyway, I think my biggest blow job asset it the aim to please
Live life.

[Pinky]

I just got my tongue pierced and I was wondering if anyone had any techniques for me giving head with it in?

Also... what is the best position to give head in. I often do it with my boyfriend laying down legs apart and me either on one side of him or inbetween his legs. I find that holding myelf up gets tiring and I can't use both hands as much as I'd like because I have to use one to support myself. Any techniques?

[demonbuttercup]

pinky
i dont know about tongue rings but in response to best position my b/f says his favorite is when he's standing up and im on my knees. that way you have 2 free hands.

[Pinky]

Thanks! We've only done that a once but I do remember him telling me that he had to have me right then!

Guys- Is this just a domination thing?

As long as it's my boyfriend and it doesn't involve any pain towards me, bring on the domination, sweetie :P

[Junocozmos]

Probably too late to add anything.
But when you are giving the big BJ make sure you use your hand , rotating it as you go up and down.
My hubby loves that.

[lazer]

I get in here and read these posts once in a while. The thing you gotta remember is all us men love our women to give us BJ's. I have never met a straight man who didn't love a woman going down on him. I admit I have had really good BJ's, and I have had a few not so good ones. The women I knew I was going to see for a while, I'd do my best to try to improve their techniques. Women will listen to what you want most of the time. (Unless you want something really wacko when you're just startin out together). When I was going out with my wife a few years back before we got married, it was obvious to me she had no clue what to do or how to do it. Today is a much different story. She got there by me telling her what felt good, what I wanted, and by me earning her trust. The other side of that is you got to be patient, and willing to give her a little time. It don't hurt to amaze her with your oral skills either, makes her want to do a better job. Do what you feel, and do it like you mean it. In the end, you'll be happy.

[Ruri Hoshino]

I havn't had much experience with BJ's but I do give them to my boyfriend sometimes...

What I do with him is I like to tease him before hand... he really likes it when I nibble on his ears and stick my tongue in, also rubbing his back and chest works, then I work my way down his chest gently kissing stopping briefly to stimulate his nipples, and I gently kiss down until I reach his crotch then I rub his legs between his penis and leg (he really loves that) and I tease him by rubbing my hands everwhere but the penis

Then I get him to move his legs so that I'm between them, give him a sexy grin then I gently lick around the tip of his penis and run my tongue gently down his shaft... after running my tongue down his shaft a few times. Then I slowly insert his penis into my mouth slowly little by little while sucking, not too gently but not too strongly I found the thing he likes the best is when I suck on it, create ALOT of saliva... his most sensitive spot on his penis seems to be the back of the head so I position my tongue in such a spot that as I'm going up and down on him that spot is being stimulated by my tongue...

also what I also do is while he's still in my mouth and I'm moving up and down on him, I a) like to vary the speed so and depth that I put him in, and also move my tongue alover the shaft but mostly around the edge of the head. Unfortunately I don't have very good stamina at the moment so I've found when my jaw starts to ache unbearably I switch from bj to hand job to give my jaw a break, the hand job works really well since he's always well lubricated from my saliva, when my jaw recovers I go back to the b/j again.

[astral_body_awake]

The testicles are often neglected * My man loves it when I caress them gently as I suck on his penis, as well as kiss, lick and suck them.

Be careful of having long nails though

Another pointer: use one hand to hold the base of the penis, and the other to move in an up and down motion along with your mouth.

[lilly2279]

Okay, the girl before me kind of said what i was going to. lol. I have been told I'm "VERY" talented at blow jobs. ha ha.
Obviously all the little teasing beforehand is fun and totally functional, but it's not the nitty gritty of a blow job.
The main thing I think I add is enthusiasm!
1.You gotta love to do it and not have to be begged to do it! 2.You have to use lots of saliva! don't be emberassed when you make all of those messy slurpy noises! He loves it!
3. Once you get him nice and wet and hard, use your hand and bring it right up to your mouth, like and extension of your mouth. A nice firm grim, up and down the shaft with your lips and your tongue keeping very lubed!
4. Some guys do like a little bit of a twist in the middle - that's preference, just a small flick of the wrist (slowly) while you move up the penis, then back the other way when you go down.
5.gently play with balls, of course, or the perineum (however you spell that little spot under the balls) Before I even start a blow job.. I've thoroughly licked and flicked my tongue across it, so it's nice and wet to flick my finger across, gently, like an extra tongue.
6. and of course, if he's into anal, a lubed finger up the bum is gonna send him into orbit.
7. Try moaning or humming during the blowjob as well. stick your finger in your mouth now and hum a tune, cool, huh? lol
8. I also like sometimes alternating between an ice cube in my mouth, to sips of warm tea. or a hot rub flavored lotion. mix it up, baby! he he