Blow-job Techniques 101

[smoothboi]

Originally Posted by GweMi

How do you know when your man is about to cum??
Im not sure I want him to cum into my mouth on the first time I give him head, how do I tell when its about tho happen and what do I do?
If i dont want him to cum into my mouth, where should i make him cum??
Any ideas??

you can tell by his body language. his muscles will all tense up and he will start breathing heavier. If you dont want it in your mouth, i suggest you pull your mouth off when you think he is going to cum then let him come on your chest or face....

[GweMi]

Originally Posted by smoothboi

i suggest you pull your mouth off when you think he is going to cum then let him come on your chest or face....

..and then what?? At what stage do you wipe it off..It will surly ruin the moment if i need to dash off and wipe down?
How can you remove the cum on your chest without spoiling the moment?

[scorpioteaser]

when i suck my man's dick i love to suck it until he thinks i'm a vacuum he likes the slurp noises so i incorporate that too then i play with my tongue ring around the head and french kiss his balls when he's about to come i hold my mouth over his dick and swallow his sperm which turns him on even more

[smoothboi]

Originally Posted by GweMi

..and then what?? At what stage do you wipe it off..It will surly ruin the moment if i need to dash off and wipe down?
How can you remove the cum on your chest without spoiling the moment?

I mean its really not that bad. The first time I ever let my guy cum in my mouth, sure it was alittle different, but it doesnt taste bad! Sure it might spoil the mood if you have to run for a towel or something,kindof like when you are getting hot and heavy and he has to stop to get a condom on. that is why if you can swallow it you wont have that problem!

[smoothwaitress]

WE are never taught actual techniques when it comes to sex. There is more information available on how to catch a football or swing a bat. The internet is somewaht helping in that respect. It ican be very hit or miss. There are workshops out there for people to learn. The problem is no woman or man wants to hear they are not good at a particular part of sex. For some reason we all believe that we are born with the ability to have great sex. My husband told me if you want a woman to stop giving you oral criticize her technique. I have found the same to true with men. I think what we need to do, is tell our partners EXACTLY what we like and what we don't like. Visual aids like good quality sex videos are helpful as well. The point is everyone likes different things, so talk tell your S/O what you like. It's your orgasm make it a good one.

[YippieSkip]

Dave's favorite thing is when I get really excited and attack him... with my whole face. It's probably pretty sloppy and unattractve but he digs it.

Me, I could lick and suck on his penis for hours... and I do.

[Kassie_Kat]

I'm real nervous about giving my BF a blow-job cause i've only given 2 before and the feed back was kinda "meh" any ideas or advice on how to make my man feel good?

[Rouge]

1. Tell him you're not too experienced and ask him to teach you what he likes, guys love this type of thing.

2. don't be afraid to make mistakes, you've already told him you aren't experienced.

3. cover your teeth at all times

4. if you feel like you've messed up, make a cute face and ask for suggestions

5. remember that we all started somewhere. I can remember first learning, and my partner was very good about giving pointers and saying what was good/not good. "yes, that feels good" or "try here" and pointing were great helpers. Your partner may not, but know that this little lesson now will reap rewards later.

[Diera]

A certain percentage of the male population doesn't know how to handle a woman who enjoys giving bjs. 100% of them want it but a lesser percentage want it from a potential mate...as a full time provider of this service you just have to trust me on this....(hey that's the mother of my children sort of thing)...so all I'm suggesting is that since it is a fantasy trip for a lot of males go the extra mile and make it memorable. You don't have to "make it all disappear" like it was some sort of "neatness" trick...let him see it, take it on the lips or stick your tongue out...I know this sounds evil but he will remember it for a long time, trust me, and his mental image of that particular moment will keep him coming back for more.

[Diera]

Originally Posted by GweMi

How do you know when your man is about to cum??
Im not sure I want him to cum into my mouth on the first time I give him head, how do I tell when its about tho happen and what do I do?
If i dont want him to cum into my mouth, where should i make him cum??
Any ideas??

then start with him cuming on your lips and face with your mouth closed and slowly over time get used to the taste and texture and suck him dry after he is finished..you get less in your mouth and can deal with it better and he is always ultra sensitive at that point so you will light him up.

i still have trouble with pre-cum after god knows how many bjs but that is mental and it only lasts a second but i learned this way and it worked for me.