Blow-job Techniques 101

[sexkitten05]

before I go down on my boyfriend, I gargle Scope or any kind of mouthwash in my mouth, and spit it out before bed, and when I go down on him, my minty mouth tingles his cock and balls and he cums within minutes, I love doing it to him when he's been a good boy.

[Abby71]

I was searching a bit about this stuff ... found a cool blog from some relationship counsler and talks about some cool techniques.
Oral-sex-tips-for-women

[smoothboi]

Lick with the tip of your toungue from the base of his dick all the way up the "vein" portion in the middle. Then take your toungue and swirl around the head and grasp the balls with your other hand. slowly stroke his dick while licking the head lightly. eventually take the rest of it in your mouth and my trick is to use lots of toungue! The wetter your mouth is the faster he will cum.

[Ashnight]

I like to give my boyfriend blowjobs, it makes me excited and happy that I can please him in such a way. He really likes it when I start off by licking and nipping my way down his body and then nibble on his hips while I massage his thighs and sack. I always ask "please" before I flick the tip of his head with my tongue. Then he likes it when I suck on his head first before I pull back, as if I'm done, and then take as much of his penis into my mouth as I can. I never stop rollin my tongue around and sucking on it with different pressures. I am one of the girls that bobs her head up and down his penis while giving him a blow job, because he finds it stimulating and I don't mind it. I never stop massaging his thighs and the pressure point in his hip and his sack while I'm doing this, its more pleasing for him, and on the plus side, he has an amazing body, so I love touching him anyway. If I'm reall into the bj, I'll swallow, but most of the time I don't. He feels as if he's demeaning me that way.

[alanna]

i'm a relationship coach and i've been an escort for 5 years now. i can tell you this: the majority of my clients are married or in a relationship. they come to me primarily for great head. their partners either don't give it to them or their skills are mediocre.

a great deal of women are scared or grossed out by the idea of giving head because they know what else comes out of the man's pee pee hole! i was like that once too. women need instruction on how to overcome their fears or disgust and learn how to get to know their man's penis. once they do that, they can learn how to love it (no joke!), but also how to give an amazing blow job and the feeling of empowerment they can experience in doing so! (I offer this help in my ebook at Blow Him Away|An Escort's Guide to How to Give Great Head - index)

with regards to great technique...i can't emphasize enough the foreplay that should take place BEFORE the actual blow job. if you're not setting the right tone or mood or ambience, you're not maximizing the ultimate blow job potential. my blow jobs take at LEAST 20 minutes, but usually longer, and a great deal of that has nothing to do with the cock! it's all about build up ladies...and letting him know how much you're loving what you're doing. take my word for it...hundreds and hundreds and repeat customers can't be wrong. : )

Alanna

[ajf]

I'm with Girlygirl on this, she seems to know all the stuff that gets a guy going. I bought a book called top 100 love making tips (I know it's a bit naff), but it has 50 techniques for girls to preform on guys, they're real simple to do but some of them are suprisingly good. check out
top100lovemaking.com. Also i reciprocated with some of the girls ones. Lets just say, a few of them were received very well by my girlfriend

[ThickMami]

Hmmm.... something that I have noticed my husband likes when I am performing oral on him is I run my tongue in circles around his penis while I deep throat, he also likes that I take a lick at his testicles while sucking his penis. He said he likes the fact of the attention being on everything and the feeling of it.

I've seen a lot of responses regarding swallowing. Something that I learned that helped me a lot was when my husband is going to cum I deep throat him and the semen shoots straight to the back of my throat and I don't taste anything.

[smoothboi]

Originally Posted by sexkitten05

before I go down on my boyfriend, I gargle Scope or any kind of mouthwash in my mouth, and spit it out before bed, and when I go down on him, my minty mouth tingles his cock and balls and he cums within minutes, I love doing it to him when he's been a good boy.

I put a coughdrop in my mouth once...made my mouth cold while sucking his dick..drove him crazy!I love doing it to him when he has been a bad boy!

[GweMi]

How do you know when your man is about to cum??
Im not sure I want him to cum into my mouth on the first time I give him head, how do I tell when its about tho happen and what do I do?
If i dont want him to cum into my mouth, where should i make him cum??
Any ideas??

[Brandye]

You start by doing a search. Your questions have been answered. In short, the first time is a shock, at least a surprise, for every woman. You may want to use a (non-lubricated condom) for practice so you can learn the mechanics before getting that first mouthful. Many women get him to the edge and then let it squirt - onto his belly; onto your chest; into a tissue or towel.

Just before he comes, the head becomes completely engorged and turns purple. Some Cowper's glans juices (pre-cum) are released. If you keep a tumb lightly resting at the bottom base of the penis, you can feel it. You have to move quickly because when you feel it (discover this doing a handjob), it will be squirting very quickly.