Blow-job Techniques 101

[sexy69lady]

Sure, there is a great book out there called "Tickle His Pickle" by Dr. Sadie Allison, with many techniques and such. You can get it through Pure Romance.

The other key is communication with your man, ask what he wants. Be willing to try different things for him and he will be open to try new things with you. I bet if you bought that book and just show your bf/husband this new found discovery he will be interested. I know that with my bf that we always try new things, and never afraid to discuss what each other wants in the bedroom. Hope this helps somebody...

[mikefromva]

I, as a male, am obviously very fond of oral. I love receiving it and especially giving it. When receiving, I love for my wife to be good with her hands. Yes, the main components of a bj are the mouth and the penis, but there are other body parts there as well. I love when I am stroked while she sucks on the head. Depth doesn't make much difference, it is all in technique. I am also LOVE when she just slightly grazes the shaft with her teeth. Not enough to hurt, just that slight scratching sensation is AMAZING!! My body only seems to finish during actual intercourse.Never actually finished in her mouth. Any tips for getting there?

[dancingdoc2]

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How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[beeboo]

go slowly first...tease him for a while,kiss strip him slowly, kiss bite lick him all over....lick up the little creases at the side of his thighs...plant little kisses....look into his eyes and slowly lick the lenght of his shaft...start out licking and sucking his head, flick ur tongue over that little bit under the head and start sucking him again, slwly first and build up a bit of speed when u start getting a reaction...use ur hands too!!play with his balls when u suck him go down and lick and play with them too...if u have a vibe un it across his balls (lightly) dont wanna hurt him lol....try deepthroating...just relax and go very slowly it should slide in...when u get it down a good bit swivel your head...back up and tease a bit more and just keep going....eye contact too very important,enjoy what ur doing!!when hes getting closer slowly massage the bit behind his balls....emmmm all i can think of but just be spontaneous!!!!

[The_Sexy_One]

try this:

How to Give Head

now ill know what to do during my first bj

[BabyBlueEyes]

Thanks for all the great advice - I always thought I was doing a good job now I can't wait to try some of these out. Roll on bed time - bloody shift work playing havoc with my 'needs'...
One thing I will add though, is when your playing with the 'butt' try a hospital issue rubber glove instead of a condom on the finger - definately more horny and great feeling for him on the shaft. (obviously check for latex allergy - sorry nurse in me coming out)

Baby Blue Eyes

[Rantina]

I don't think it's that much about techniques... there's a great website I've found a few months ago that really changed me, I mean, the blow jobs I give now are incredible - at least that's what my last 3 boyfriends said. You can find the website - just type "how to give head" into Google and I think it's the #1 result that comes out, Jack is the name of the author

[headhead]

Are you related to the author? He's just trying to sell books. I've had some of the best blow jobs ever given (and maybe some of the worst), and he doesn't know what he's talking about.

[sexiteen]

uh...i dnt think im gud at gving bj's but i wanna get better at it so i can please my bf. any tips?

[dancingdoc2]

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