Blow-job Techniques 101

[HardGirth]

My lover adores giving head. And who am I to complain?! At my age, I've been with hundreds of women from all over the world, and she is perhaps amongst only a dozen or so that always use a lube while doing so. Her fingers and hands work with her mouth in constantly varying ways, often for an hour, at times pulling back, gazing at the bulging veins along the glistening shaft as if surveying her work of adoration while grasping the base with one hand and running her nails lightly along my cock and over the throbbing head. Her hunger seems to intensify until she slowly and delicately engulfs it with her mouth and resumes her tortuously erotic sucking and stroking until I explode, spurt after spurt in her mouth as her moans of satisfaction intensify my orgasm as they vibrate through my cock, so sweetly interrupted only by each of her swallows...Fed, satiated, her eyes, ever so slowly opening and looking up at me, answer the question of this thread: Does she allow cum in her mouth?...She feasts on it!

[Gibson52]

Originally Posted by Brandye

OK, I have done my share. I always make them progressive. Start with scrotum (kissing and licking), then up the shaft (flicking and licking) and eventually take him in. If you are sucking the head and back up to the others, some intensity seems to be lost.

Once in my mouth, I keep a light suction and do things with my tongue - round and round. I try to keep pressure of my lips right around the corona with the head in my mouth And play with the shaft.

Now, a girl trick: I always keep a finger against the perineum, just behind the scrotum. This is where the orgasm starts and I can feel that first squirt coming and press my tongue against my hard palate to keep it from triggering (usually) the gag reflex. When the ejaculation begins, I keep the skin of the shaft lightly stretched and stop all other movement except to press the perineum in rhythm with the ejaculation. Maybe end up with milking if he is not overly sensitive.

Brandye...I always like your responses cause your an upbeat, open minded and polite person who knows how to work the clock. Your sex partners are very lucky to have you. And still no cheap bras..way to go. Who wants a cheap lady?? The creamy lipstick idea of yours sounds really nice and has gotten the best of my imagination. Cheers to Brandye!!

[Libidogurl]

the first thing i will do is start kissing him with intense heat, then my lips will start to crawl down to the neck then to his chest i will start licking until i reach his navel upon this i will go into his cock and start licking it just like a luscious Lollipop and that always turn him on, sucking his cock until it gets so damn hard, when it is real hard I would actually lick the head and pt it in and out of my mouth, when his coming out i would suck his cum and spit it gently around his cock.

[Bushidokaizen]

I agree that using the tongue is a key factor.

I had a girl that only used suction and even though she gave me head for 10-15 minutes, I didn't get anywhere. it maintained my erection, but no real stimulation.

The tongue and light pressure are key. Plus using the hand while suction is wonderful

[sexylips101]

Originally Posted by Ephemera

Sexylips101, how do I convince someone I'm with to adopt your attitude?

No, that's not a joke. Seriously; I want to know.

hahah i don't know! ive loved it since the first time i did it, practice makes perfect i guess?

[luvpussy]

den2k has it down perfect i would say!!!give him a good blow job and just keep doing it ...heh heh heh

[FoxyLady345]

Usually when I give head, I use both my mouth and hands. One hand stroking in sync or playing with the balls, the other I use it to explore his body. Guys are sensitive on the inner thighs, and their chest especially if you tweak their nipples lol. Rubbing the head gently (unless they like it harder) drives them insane. I just go everywhere.

[sparkygirl]

Ok, I was giving my guy a BJ the one time and he complained that I was playing with his balls. Actually his exact words were "Why do women insist on playing with them!?" Now I'm all confused. LOL

[dlb]

Originally Posted by sparkygirl

Ok, I was giving my guy a BJ the one time and he complained that I was playing with his balls. Actually his exact words were "Why do women insist on playing with them!?" Now I'm all confused. LOL

It depends on the man. Some men's scrotums are so sensitive that touching them, or touching in a certain way, is unpleasant. Some enjoy scrotal stimulation before orgasm, but not after. Others enjoy scrotal stimulation of any type any time.
The same goes with the glans or "head" of the penis. Some men enjoy direct stimulation of the glans others find it unbearable.
You have to get to know your partner. And a person's prefernces can change over time.

[Dr. D]

I agree with dlb, it must depend on the man on whether he likes his balls touched. And if this guy is really going to whine like that while you are kind enough to give him head, maybe it's time to find another. I like some attention down there and I think a light tugging while you suck on my cock feels amazing.

In my opinion the three most important elements to a great bj are: 1.) an ability to make him feel that you are in love with his cock, 2.) take your time and use your lips, tongue, hands and eyes to enhance the experience, and 3.) make him feel like you love his cum almost as much as you love his cock.