Blow-job Techniques 101

[lazer]

From a mans point of view, BJ's are the best one of the best feelings in the world. Tip, when I'm gettin ready to cum I like my lady to keep doin what she's doin, with her mouth or hand and keep doin it till I'm done cumin. You do that and you'll have a satistified man.

[Hello]

i agree whole heartedly with lazer, when you can feel your about to cum, the only thing you want is whats is already being done, to have a variation at that point ( can extend the lasting time,) but it can more improitantly be SO very annoying, especially as its feeling so good, that you just want them to keep going and going, until your juices are filling their mouths, stopping desensitizes, and means u gotta staret from square 2 again.

[marriedkaren]

I'm curious what others think of a technique I have used on my last bf and now my husband. They seem to love it. I enjoy it too but it's designed primarily for his pleasure.

This only works if you have an entire afternoon or evening
with nothing planned. It's also best to plan ahead.

First, a couple of days prior, stop having sex.
Second, talk about sex alot and what your going to do to him
at the specified day/time. Get him excited.
Third, when the day arrives, have a couple adult videos available, a penis ring, any kind of vibrating device, and get comfortable in a private place in front of the TV. Start watching the videos and fooling around. Put the penis ring on him. Keep him hard but let the focus be on you. Intercourse is not allowed. Only hand play and oral. Let him bring you to orgasm...several times if you want. By this time an hour or so should have passed and he will be desperate for relief. Don't give it to him. Make him agree not to touch himself and to tell you if he feels close to cumming. For the next 2 hours you need to stimulate and then ignore him, off and on about every 5 minutes. You can suck him awhile and the go do a load of laundry. Vibrate his balls for a few minutes and then make a quick phone call. The adult videos will keep him hard even when your not in the room. I like to keep my man in a constant state of peak arousal for about 3 hours. It may sound like torture for him but both guys I've done this with have wanted to do it again.
Fourth, turn off the video, and remove the penis ring.
Let him decide how he wants to cum. In my experience,
they want you to see how much cum they have produced
and opt for a bj. It should take about 30 seconds and will be extremely messy. I'm a good sport and let them cum anywhere they want. It kinda drips all over anyway. My husband say's he sleeps great after one of these sessions.

[LilDvL]

Personally, I think you have to enjoy what you are doing and not send off any negative vibes to your partner. *If you show him or even tell him you are enjoying pleasuring him, all the better.

What I like to do is slowly work my way down to his penis. Sucking on his nipples and kissing/licking my way down. While kissing his chest I like positioning the penis between my breasts and gently squeezing. When reaching the pelvic area, I kiss and lick everywhere BUT his penis. Licking and gently nibbling on the inner thighs. When I see that he has had enough of the teasing I gently run the tip of my tongue from the bottom of his shaft all the way to the tip. *And slowly build up the intensity. *I like to insert just the very tip of the head into my mouth and little by little take more of it in. *At this point I like to keep the rythym soft and slow. I like to build up the pressure by tightening my lips and my hand(s) around the shaft while still keeping a slow rythym. *As my hand strokes the shaft I like running my tongue over the scrotum and softly (!) sucking on his testicles. *I also like to alternate between hard and slow strokes with quick and soft strokes. *I also like applying pressure to the perineum with my finger or my tongue. * And I always makes sure that my lips are secured tightly around my teeth. *

I think some of the key things to remember (at least from my experience it might not be for all men)are:

a) saliva, saliva, saliva..it keeps the penis well lubricated
b) alternating your speed/pressure, alternating between using just your lips and tongue, to just using your hand, to using both, it keeps him guessing and makes the experience less "boring"
c) work that tongue, always keep it moving, circle the head, make figure 8's, spell out your name...just keep it moving.
d) and last but not least, Enjoy yourself!

This is just what works for me, haven't had many complaints as of yet. *I could go into more detail, but I think I've detailed enough. *Every guy is different, therefor they like different things, get your partner to tell you what he likes. *Don't be affraid to speak up, you'll both be happier campers!

[jerjohn]

It sounds great! But I don't think it is recomended leaving a penis ring on for more than 20 or 30 minutes at a time. I guess it could be different with different ones, so check the intructions. Wouldn't want anyone to get hurt out there.

[Stephanie083099]

I like keeping my boyfriend waiting and wanting more, it sounds like a great idea, How did you ever come up with this, any other ideas, let me know.

[Stephanie083099]

Everyone is different, not every guy likes it the same way, the advice that I can give to you is be careful of your teeth, it hurts them a lot, try to keep them away, you can put your tongue in front to avoid that. Do variety, some guys like their balls licked sucked, some like the tip of their penis sucked played with, licked, Do variety and by his reaction you will know what he likes. Or you can just ask him what he likes.

[slugger]

i dont really like that long of a blowjob because then i get out of the mood after a while i like a blowjob to be not to long and not too short i love watching the girl give me head it gets me into it more.

[xx22xx]

While my boyfriend and I were having sex, he squeezed the base of his penis, which I guess delayed cumming. Do you think it will work if the girl does it to the guy during oral sex?

[0uchaBo0Bo0]

I may sounds ridiculous asking this but I am not good at words, what is the prostate? lol I am lost with that one.