Blow-job Techniques 101

[AriesLady]

Originally Posted by xkatex

now I just need to practise not gagging during deep throat lmao!

I find if I'm really relaxed after a long bath or a massage or even if I've had a drink I am much more likely NOT to gag, I'm sure too much drink isn't a good idea but just one and I think your muscles including those in your throat are willing to relax a little more.

Also, on foreskin moving and playing with the perineum, I think everything about a blowjob is completely down to the individual because of varying sensitivity; some guys I've been with loved that magical area below their balls but others it was just a dead end. I think your best bet is probably to ask what he likes.

[dlb]

I have heard that there are now lubricants that make a BJ more pleasant for the man and that also inhibit the gag reflex for the woman. Does anyone know about this? My wife can barely get the head of my penis in her mouth if it's hard and I need to have at least half of the shaft in her mouth. If such a product exists and works that would be great, but I have one major doubt here: if these lubes have a numbing effect on the mouth don't they also numb the penis making more work for the woman and robbing the man of some of the enjoyment?

If you know about this from experience please reply.

[KMB]

I just saw that there is a new protection which I might use. It's shaped like a T it's called a ParaGard

and it is supposed to be 99% effective

and it fits in the uterus.

ok and I think a Blow - Job is the best part of sex to me.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by KMB

I just saw that there is a new protection which I might use. It's shaped like a T it's called a ParaGard

and it is supposed to be 99% effective

and it fits in the uterus.

ok and I think a Blow - Job is the best part of sex to me.

Just be aware an IUD does not protect against STD's or HIV. They work well.

[KMB]

Oh yeah I saw that.

Only question is how to put it in? no need for operation.

oh nvm it says it's really small so it shouldn't be too hard.

and of course the Condom is what I will use as well.

Sorry to put this in the wrong thread

[sera300]

No big deal...it takes about 10 minutes to insert at the gyn office. You have to check them at times yourself. And the gyn can remove one when you wish, they work pretty simple.

[KMB]

yeah I might go to her and tell her that I'm pretty close to having sex and I think that the Paragard and Condom are good for me.

[Hiplisiko]

Show him that you want it.

[amphette]

There are several techniques that my idol, Zane introduced to me. Find out more at her website, www.eroticanoir.com

Deep throat it and vibrate the throat as though you are gargeling.
There is a spot located(when facing the man's face) on the left side of the penis. Make your tongue very familiar with that spot.
When the penis is in deep, move the mouth in in out diagonally and quickly, and though the mouth is hopping on it.
Eating ice cream toppings, such as butterscoth and chocolate sauce off of it will make it more appetizing to the woman.

[lnt1103]

I start with stroking by hand from outside the underwear. There's some good sensation to be had from the fabric to get things started. Then once they're off and I've done a little more gentle stroking by hand, I do some soft kissing up and down the vein on the underside, with just a little bit of suction from my lips on the skin. When I make it to the tip, before I take it in, I rub my lips around the corona a little too. Then once I've taken it in and I want to escalate things a little, I start pumping the shaft with one hand, and give a very gentle tickle with the fingers of other hand to the scrotum and around the base of the shaft. All three of those sensations all at once-mouth, pumping, and the gentle tickle-work really well.