Blow-job Techniques 101

[bryrw06]

totally agreed anita well said!

[Mac Andy92]

alright girls, this is one way I know alot of guys love it.

First you just flick your tonge around the scrotum. Go a little crazy here if you want but not too much, it can be excruciatingly painful if you go a little too far.
And second, lick all the way up the shaft. Take it slow here and tease a little.
Next, just flick your tongue all aroun d the head, this drives me wild, and I've climaxed at this point on more than one occasion.
Finnaly, you just pop it in. And while it's in your mouth make sure you keep your tongue in constant motion around the head. Personnaly, I don't believe any thrusthing is necessary, as long as your tongue is in constant motion.

[BedroomBliss]

First off:


ENJOY WHAT YOU'RE DOING

This is your chance to give pleasure to your man.

Be enthusiastic about it.

It's time to let your inner sex kitten out and play.

Be powerful, be strong, be sexy. Look at him in the
eye while you're pleasuring him. Enjoy the fact that
right at this moment, he' hand over the keys to the
castle.

This is a powerful act for a woman and the time when
a man is at his most vulnerable.

SAVOR it.

THE WETTER, THE BETTER

ALL Guys agree. The more saliva you use, the more
enjoyable the oral lovin'.

Try and keep him nice and moist from the tip on down.

This is NOT the time to act like Bree on
"Desperate Housewives" and be anally neat.

Get MESSY.

Keep a glass of water by the bed to keep your mouth
moist. Or even experiment with some fun foods
like whipped cream if you want. (I personally stay
away from honey... it's a pain in the butt to
clean up...)

Just remember, you are simulating a very warm,
moist, snug place...

LEND A HELPING HAND, OR TWO

Do not be afraid to use your hands, especially
if you don't have a Linda Lovelace deep throat.

Your hand should be a nice continuation of your
mouth. Even add a gentle twist of the wrist to add
to the pleasure.

If you're not sure what I mean, click here for
more details:

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BE BALLSY

The testicles are your friends, ladies. Treat them
as such.

Greet them warmly. Cradle, cup, stroke his
balls.

The number one complaint I hear from the guys
is that the ladies forget that they are a package
deal. Three's Company.

REMEMBER WHAT YOU'RE HANDLING

There's a fine line between being firm and
strangulation.

Be mindful of the amount of pressure you're using.
Try and think what YOU would like, if the tables
were turned. You're NOT strangling a dead chicken.

And if you're not sure about the pressure, then
that leads me to my next pointer...

DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR COMMENTS

Don't just HOPE for the bast.

If your man doesn't seem over the moon...

(What? Is he in a coma or something???)

Then feel free to ask him if there's anything
you could improve on, anything else he
likes, what he wants more of, or less...

The whole idea is to GIVE PLEASURE, as I'm
SURE he will be doing in return.

Communication can only make it better.

And one last note for those of you with
newer partners.

Whatever you decide is the "happy ending,"
know your man.

Not to blow the mood (bad pun intended),
but you still have to be responsible for
your health.

There is a reason prostitutes use condoms
for oral sex. If your man HAS NOT been
tested. you could be playing BJ roulette.

Think before you drink.

for more tips, you can check out my ebook @
www.blissinthebedroom.com

Happy sex!

[hotbabe]

May be yes, may be no, i am not selling you my tips from the first move.

[dunequeen]

I know that my husband loves the way I give hummers. I start by gently licking and sucking his balls, then i move up the shaft with my tongue. Circle his tip and back down. I slowly start to put him in my mouth sucking up and down at the same time I hold his penis with my hand following the same up and down motion as my mouth.

If you mix it up once and awhile how you do it, this will really get them going.

[Isaasoo]

My HD likes when my motions are unpredictable. It arouses him.

[Sweet Love]

I so enjoy giving my husband BJ's, its so much fun!!

As Samantha on "Sex in the City" said, "they don't call it a job for nothin'"...

Giving a BJ is all about attitude, go in and focus on giving your man the best pleasure he has ever felt. Everytime you do it, it should be better than the last. Don't do the same routine over and over again. Mix it up. Take all the ideas on this post and shuffle them like an iPod. Its very enjoyable to see the pleasure you give to your lover.

I don't understand, some of my married girl friends don't give their husbands blowjobs anymore or ever. I think the penis is a beautiful thing, the feeling of licking it and tonging it, sucking it so so enjoyable. My husband is always in seventh heaven afterwards.

I have a lot of gay friends, and they say they like being sucked like a "Hoover", so I've taken their advice and it does work!!!!!

However you do it, do it coz you enjoy it and you enjoy your lover. Make every second of it the best as if its your last BJ ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[hogiennikki]

hey all.....this is nikki ...i can agree on what cool macs said because i have tried it on my husband to and OMG the orgasim he has is out of this world... we use lube and condom...and he loved it and so do i ...chat with you later nikki..
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Originally Posted by cool macs

pretty simple really...

since i was "open" to the idea, hehe, it didn't require more then a little lube... though using condoms helps to not have dirty fingers... the prostate gland, from my understanding is kind of in the same place as a gsot, but obviously in the guys anus...

I spanked it while she sucked on my nuts and fingered me... a simple clockwise in and out with focus on the gland...

when my nut finally came, oh my god... couldn't move for 30 mins... couldn't even reach over for a smoke... all I have to say is wow...

to think so much pleasure from something so simple... makes me laugh at the guys who are too naive/immature to try it..

[Leadustodismay]

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[sera300]

Originally Posted by Leadustodismay

ok I have a question. I am the first person that my boyfriend has even had sex/ or has even done anything sexual. I am lets say more experienced. I seem like I can't do anything to get him to cum and I've been sucessful by far with other partners. I DT and that doesn't work and sometimes just open my mouth and let him thrust. I dont know what i can do , shy of a reach around ( I'm not into that) to get him to finally Cum. is it me? is there anything I can do to help him. he seems to enjoy it but Just can't reach a climax. we are both in our early 20s

Please do not double post...read the other thread, hope it helps.