Blow-job Techniques 101

[vette1963]

girlygirl! your technique sounds fantastic from a males point of view. let him enjoy as long as he reciprocates. eating pussy is an art! sucking a guy off is also! glad to see your an active user of this board. you appear to know what you are doing. i hope this board helps you as you have helped others. brandye is a super consultant in many areas if you need help rely on her

My hubby likes it when i play the gspot game with him too. The spot is accessible in the area between the bottom of scrotum and the anal opening. there is a little "open" v spot that when lightly pushed causes an orgasmic feeling without the actual spilling of semen. It can be done numerous times in one session and ALWAYS leads to an orgasm inlike any other

My man likes it when I make him lie on the bed with me between his legs.. his thighs on mine and spread.. I use allot of lube (I just use baby oil gel and baby oil mixed).. I smother his cock and my hands with the oil.. I use both hands on him (which he loves) than I use one hand to rub his crack and anal area (he loves it) While Im doing that I start giving him head, I pump him with one hand while sucking his tip and the "v" spot on the back side of the penis I rub with my tongue (Mmmm) He has great stamina but he can't even stand this... being between his legs is also a great position to give a boob job (wink) just my 2ç :-)

[Mykaic]

Just thought I'd add my personal experience to this topic. *My b/f also loves to have his prostate stimulated but recently we have found that (if you aren't grossed out by it) licking the area around the anus is very sensitive, in fact flicking the tissue that bunches up there drives him absolutely wild and he's been cumming harder than he says he ever has before. *If you're both comfortable with the idea it's a great addition to going down on your guy.

[traci]

I like to have a girl on her knees in front of me while I stand,
two hands is critical and slow steady motion is the best. Licking the shaft and softly kissing and sucking on the head.

I don't do anal licking and feel that its is too unclean to be worth it.

I am a crossdresser so I know what I like and I try to do that to the men that I am with. I have only been with a man a couple times, but find that when dressed I feel like a women not a man. Theres a big difference I think.

[Tjdude]

hey Traci, i have a question, since you have some experience giving oral. Do you think man give oral better than woman to an other man?, you know what women say about woman getting better oral from another woman than a man, i wonder if it is the same for man.

[traci]

Tjdude,

Interesting question,

Absolute false, men do not know how to give oral worth a dang!! Sorry but thats the truth. Women, have a arora about them that sitimulates the males visual senses. Their soft hair resting on my inner thighs, soft hands and seductive looks are more incrediable then any man can provide. Men think thats its more about up and down and its not, its more about the atmosphere and the wetness. Slow steady hands and a wet mouth will take any man to orgasm.

These are the things that I try to bring when I give oral. My crossdressing helps me be feminine when giving oral dispite being very masculine any other time.

From a guys point of view the best thing females can do to a guy when it comes to oral is use a lot of tounge. The best thing is to take a mans penis into your mouth and close ur lips and just use ur tounge to do everything and when you have had enough remove the penis from inside of your mouth slowly while massaging with your lips. Also, hand and lip motion is always good. Also, the balls are a very good spot to trigger when doing oral. 1 more, try to suck, use one hand to jerk at the same time, and the other hand to play with his balls.....U WILL HAVE HIM MOANING 4 DAYS!

HOPE THIS HELPED YOU GIRLS!

[SammyMouse]

right..
only been with my new boyfriend for 5 months now, he is 31 & i am 18 (in a week).
we waited till we were both ready to have sex, it is the most amazing sex ive ever had, he is the best, he is good, but loving too, it makes all the difference to love the man its with.
i know he enjoys the sex, but i am wondering if any of u out there have any tips for the sex, or for a mind blowing blow job. he sed he hasnt had to many blow jobs, but i love doing it, and wonder if there is anything i can do to guarantee he cums!?!?
plz help

[ty_guy]

For me, personally, one huge killer of a bj or hj is friction. *I'm not sure about other guys, but the skin on the shaft of my penis is stretchy and freely mobile even when my penis is erect. *When I masturbate, I never move the skin of my hand over the skin of my penis. *Instead, I use the skin of my penis to massage the underlying tissue.

Girls don't seem to do that when they're using their hands - they seem to move their hand up and down over the penile skin. *Not only is this minimally stimulating*, it actually hurts when done without lube. *Using this method also allows more circumferential pressure to be applied to the shaft, which is always good.

If my explanation wasn't good enough, you might understand better with an example. *Extend your left index finger straight out (it will be the penis in the example). *Now, with the tip of your right index finger, wiggle the skin above the left finger's middle knuckle. *See how you can move the skin without moving the bone underneath? *Basically, you're rubbing your left finger bone with the underside of the skin on your left finger. *Meanwhile, the skin of your left finger never moves in relation to the skin on your right finger.

The skin on the penis is much more mobile than that on the knuckle, and moving it up and down (rather than moving your hand up and down over it) should really reduce the friction and increase the pleasure of using your hand.

* There is one caveat to my statement that playing with the skin of the shaft is minimally stimulating. *When very close to orgasm, squeezing or stretching the small mass of skin just below the head on the ventral (scrotal) side of the penis (almost like you'd squeeze or stretch an ear lobe) can put me over the top.