Blow-job Techniques 101

[marijkew1986]

Don't worry I learned it myself too.

Try some guides at Deep Throat . It took some time for me. About 6 months. But can deepthroat my boyfriend now fully (hes about 9 inches).

Have fun!

[katiebug]

So, I don't want to steer this thread away from where it's going, but I have a new question. I really like doing "69" with my BF. Usually we do it while we are both laying on our sides and that has given me a lot more range when giving him a BJ and for me, I prefer to give them that way. (Upside-down) I can take him deeper into my throat that way and have more range with my hands.

Anyway - my BF doesn't respond well to this position. He starts to squirm and moan when I am licking him or sucking him. At first I thought it was good, but then I realized the squirming was more like he was trying to pull out of my mouth. The last time he just stopped me and told me that it was too sensitive. He said feeling my tongue on the top of his head is too much sensation and last time it made his erection fade a bit. I don't know what to do. I've tried just sucking on him without really using a lot of tongue and tried paying attention to the shaft and everything else BUT the head but he just makes me stop and switch positions. Or he asks me not to touch his penis at all while he just goes down on me and I end up just licking and kissing the insides of his thighs. I don't really know what to do so that this doesn't happen cause I really like giving him a BJ in that position.

He told me it's always going to be that way cause when he's going down on me he gets so turned on and so sensitive that touching him too much is like overload. Can any other guys relate and give me some advice?

[Luvs2plzU]

I can relate to some of what he's trying to tell you...in the 69 position, there is WAY TOO MUCH beauty to behold from a males perspective!!..there is some sort of sensory, sensuous OVERLOAD going on for sure!!....I can't seem to be in any sort of control of my naughty bits while teasing and licking and nibbling my partners pieces of heaven...it is very sensitive I think due to the mental pictures we've got running thru out "leedle-brains"...LOL...OMG...my desk is rising ....

[Traylblazer]

Hmmm... This may not be a workable solution, but I'd sure be willing to try it if it were me.

Any chance of keeping the 69 position, but not fully participating simultaneously? For example, while he's enjoying your sweetness, you can just gently rub his legs, butt, maybe do a little non-genital kissing, sucking, nibbling, etc. Then, he would do the same for you while you give him the delicious blow job you described! Kinda crazy, I guess, but if I were him, I'd hate to miss out!! And I'd hate for you to miss doing something you enjoy!

Good luck!

[Maribelle]

I've hated sucking off my past boyfriends -- they've all been total jerks, though, too.... I'm 26 & finally just starting to enjoy sex (even to stay present during sex without leaving my body is a terrifying & yet awesome achievment for me) -- 26 & just finally opening up to the very idea of letting myself just enjoy myself. What a ****ing amazing concept! My boyfriend now is almost 40 & an OBGYN -- there are some other issues I'm dealing with being a survivor of molestation, too ... he's the 1st guy I've felt sexy with, the 1st guy I actually desire.

But, I still haven't gotten to the point where I can can control -- even though I want to & even though he's asked me to *SIGH* I'm OK with 69 because then we're doing it together. My jaw does sometimes hurt because I have TMJ & so I sometimes take a break to nibble the tendons in his thighs, simply lick around the area, tickle his thighs with my hair, massage his legs & feet with my hands, etc....

I like to start at the bottom near his scrotum & lick up to the tip of the head, then lick down in a sort of swirl to get it all wet -- I pause to get my hands soaked with saliva or sometimes I just dribble spit onto the tip ... then I try to mix it up: sucking just the tip with 2 hands constantly sliding down the shaft one after the other, sucking just the tip while one hand pumps & twists the shaft with my other hand squeezes his testicles, flicking my toungue on the tip while holding the shaft & testicles in one hand with my other hand sticking a finger in his anus, pumping his penis in my mouth & sucking it deep and sometimes swirling my toungue around it inside my mouth with my hands alternating between his testicles & anus, etc. I like to swallow sometimes, sometimes I like to watch the cum squirt wherever it wants to, and other times I like to feel it splash my neck/chest -- my hands are my least favorite place for him to cum because I don't like it between my fingers

[2hot4him]

Originally Posted by Traylblazer

Hmmm... This may not be a workable solution, but I'd sure be willing to try it if it were me.

Any chance of keeping the 69 position, but not fully participating simultaneously? For example, while he's enjoying your sweetness, you can just gently rub his legs, butt, maybe do a little non-genital kissing, sucking, nibbling, etc. Then, he would do the same for you while you give him the delicious blow job you described! Kinda crazy, I guess, but if I were him, I'd hate to miss out!! And I'd hate for you to miss doing something you enjoy!

Good luck!

This is something my first husband and I used to do-take turns in 69...because it felt too good to do simultaneous!!! It still felt really, really good taking turns! What a great build-up!!!

[cheech_was_here]

Well, im 15 and have been with my boyfriend for about 2 monthes and a half, naturally, we've had sex. for the record, he's a saint in the sack, but as much as i love getting it on with him, i love giving him head just as much.

First offf, i love giving head, i find it interesting to see how diffrent spots can be so pleasurfull for him, and how he groans and twitches when i do other things =) When i give him head, sometimes i tend to slowly masterbate him while i play with his head. Now for the best part, im one of the lucky gals who got blessed with a touble jointed toungue, which means i can do crazy things, from doing the wave to flipping my toung 360degrees around. i can also make a maple leaf shape with it.
Now, naturally, my boyfriend loves this god given tallent as much as i do , so when i give him head i masterbate him with one hand slowly, play with his scrotum with the other, and fool around flipping, flicking and licking his head in all diffrent areas. i also like to push pressur and the bottum and move it upwards, making a wave effect, and trust me he likes it too
i also like when he cums in my mouth, i dont know if all guys have this buut i tend to feel the cum coming up and right befor, its almost as if its a gun lock and loading itself befor shooting out. he loves when i swallow him as do i because he just tastes soo good. i dont know about all girls, but i cant get enof of the taste of his cum anf jsut for the record, MAYN hes awsome. the sweetest man iv ever seen. treats me like a priness and makes me feel better then one. plus hes the bomb at everything, and when he fingers me or ****s me **** I JUST LOVE IT!!

Anyways, Now i have a question that i really need some feedback on!
My best friend is 15, and in about 24 days to be exact shes turing 16. Now im with my boyfriend (whom i love to the ends of the world and i cant stand being without) and im intimate (and loving every second of it) with him too. She tends to ask a lot of questions and get info about my sex life, which isnt a problem, common where girls! Now for the problem, not only has she not have a boyfriend, well she had a fling with a guy but it turned out to go no where, so ya . Shes never even french kissed a guy! Iv told her about times where iv tooken off my shirt with my bf (when we startd dating ) and she said why would you do that? like she doesnt understand the point? and when i talk about penises, she thinks their grose and says ew. dont get me wrong, shes the fathest from a lesbian, shes just never had first hand experiance. adnd shes had crushes, and has one now. the problem she doesnt now how to flurt and i want her to start getting some ass. i know sex isnt the most important thing in the world, but shes ganna be 16 and never done anything mroe then a peck, but still tends to make fun of people who are virgins, as if shes not"???? Now my boyfriend says i should tell her straight out go out with someone for experiance, so at least when u get a bf he wont think your all.... un common with those things. i think its mean but i now i should.. but i cant. my question to whom ever has the answer ?! WHAT SHALL I DO!?!??!
thxx - cheech was here lovinng her boo -- <3

[SCAR]

i don't think u should push her let her go at her own pace. u can give her tips on flirting ect. but i wouldn't force her into relationships just for experience. let her find someone she truely likes. i dont think any boy will laugh at her for not being experienced

[MyPrincessesSweatHeart]

Wow i didn't know i made you feel that well :$:$,well i wanted you to know that i love you way more and nothing in the world can change that , and btw LoL you do not understand how ugly she is...its scary

[cheech_was_here]

Originally Posted by MyPrincessesSweatHeart

Wow i didn't know i made you feel that well :$:$,well i wanted you to know that i love you way more and nothing in the world can change that , and btw LoL you do not understand how ugly she is...its scary

...... i guess that was my amazing boyfriend ..... man he's so awsome... better than any other guy i could ever have............. i just love him so facking much, i hope he understands i love him more =) he means the world to me and as you can all see he's the sweetest candy in that jar (hahaha kornyyyyy ) ... giving you head boo is just so fun, i hope you enjoy it as much as i like seeing you enjoy it. =D .....i'd endure any pain for this man, i love him so much, and i hope the only pain i cause him is the bruises and scratches he has on him after sex besides that, i would never ever try to hurt you intentionally.............i hope everyone doesnt mind, and if you do well thats not my problem haha, im publicly displaying my affection for him. i just love him so god damn facking much i cant picture a life anymore without him. im sure people have felt that way about someone befor, but when im lying down beside him, after sex or not, lying on his chest is the only place i ever wanna be. I dont know how else to make it clear he's my reason to be, my amour de resistance, my way of life, my dream. my soul mate. my best friend. my closest friend. my boyfriend. and most of all my love. as he puts it (and i quoat) he's my souls perfect counter part in another human being (end quoat... just to proove how fudging nice this man is)...and i hope he nows how deeply i feel for him, because without him id be nothing, just a lost soul looking for him to guid me. hes nothing less then fabulous, nothing less then the perfect specimen... my perfect specimen.. i just love you so much i hope everyone could find someone like him....... sorry for the long msg i had to get it off my chest, and yet it still doesnt seem like a quarter of my affectiong for him.... boo i just love you so much i hope you now it and always remember it <3 ill always love you thru anything we'd have to endure, without you i wouldnt know what true love was... <3 Love me Me & You, now and forever (L) <3 <3 <3 ((--Che3cH--)) *the gangstaa*

(for the record shes not that ugly, she kinda looks like a chipmunk tho?! LOL)