Blow-job Techniques 101

[ponch]

So, People I need some help.

I am relatively new to this whole oral sex thing, I have recieved it a couple times, but have not yet let my BF have the pleasure.. I WANT to, but I am nervous that I will find it disgusting, or wont know what to do.. I don't want it to be akward.. And I am not sure if I want to "finish" him off.. I dunno If I wanna do that the FIRST time, so how should I end it?? How long should I go? I don't wanna tease him too much, but I also don't think I wanna take him all the way.. please give me tips and ideas, anything you have.. THANKS

[champloo]

lol, look at the first topic you made, i replied to that one.

[champloo]

damn...11 years older?

i might be able to help you with this one....

find a private spot, or a comfortable one. maybe not a bed, but like on your/his couch watching a movie. not so out of the ordinary, eh?

then maybe (im just suggesting here)as you are 'watching the movie', start to feel him a little...you know, not like rushing for his penis, run your fingers softly up and down his back/legs/chest (if you are on a couch, be behind him so you can wrap your arms around him and do this), basically, just let him know you are there, want something, and that you are looking/playing around (maybe get more familiar with your dude's body).

afterwords..... slowly work your way to his penis. by then, if he hasnt figured things out already, he should, by then, know what you are after...but anyway, then, maybe feel his crotch a little bit...fiddle with his button/zipper (what ever keeps his trousers together) and slowly bring it down/apart...

then.... maybe toy with him some more, like as you unzip his zipper, zip it back up and then continue rubbing his crotch...then perhaps slowly pull off his shorts/pants whatever, until he is left with what ever undergarments (boxers, briefs, etc.) on him...then do the same with the undergarments as you did with the shorts....until you've got his penis in open view...

then, either mess with his crotch somemore (rub his scrotum some, the area around his crotch, maybe the penis itself) or go right for it, and start giving him head.

im just giving a suggestion, unless you like it, id wait for better professional help (demonbuttercup's on, she might give you better help)

but i must note, if my gf did that to me...it would make ME go CRAZY...im already going nuts as i re-read and edit it..



matter of fact, there ya go

[sexylady69]

ladies this is what i learned from men:
#1-if they ejaculate while you give them head does not only have to do with how well you do your job but also how much feeling there is involved between you two. i've been told by my partner who been with other women that i'm the only one he cannot hold back for even when i give him head. we're really in love.
#2- dont be boring be creative this site reallly pinpoints what to do...i read some of the techniques and used a combination of them when giving a bj to my bf .mind you i've given a bj 5 times prior to this experience in my life and i've been told thats the best he ever had. you mix things up...dont just suck it up and down..flick the scrotum with your tongue and so-forth
also a big ++++++ gently, gently put it in ur mouth after he comes...a lot of nerve endings are there then...he'll have like 5 orgasms
hope i helped...good luck!!!!!!!!!! really follow the site

[moose_hd]

Originally Posted by sexylady69

#1-if they ejaculate while you give them head does not only have to do with how well you do your job but also how much feeling there is involved between you two. i've been told by my partner who been with other women that i'm the only one he cannot hold back for even when i give him head. we're really in love.

Interesting point ... come to think of it, if I really let go during a bj, it would put me into a 'vulnerable' position. I'd be giving into her and letting her have her way and all the control. Normally this sort of total handover of power goes against guys' "manly" instincts and such. So I think that if he can't hold back, it means that deep down he really trusts and feels comfortable with you.

[champloo]

doesnt that make you feel good inside? (lol)

i love it when my girlfriend gives me control of the situation....nothing big, but like when we are alone for brief times, i get all the control with that i do....

and by "brief" i mean like 5 minutes, so theres nothing close to any type of sex, except when i fingered her a few days ago.

[batman527]

Originally Posted by champloo

and by "brief" i mean like 5 minutes, so theres nothing close to any type of sex, except when i fingered her a few days ago.

all of us in the long distance relationship forum hate you. we'd kill for something quick like that! But seriously, we don't have a long distance relationship forum.

[SexIsMyPassTime]

I never even thought about using my tounge as a blockade..persay... That is a really good Idea.. I think that I will try that tonight.

[SexIsMyPassTime]

Originally Posted by ponch

So, People I need some help.

I am relatively new to this whole oral sex thing, I have recieved it a couple times, but have not yet let my BF have the pleasure.. I WANT to, but I am nervous that I will find it disgusting, or wont know what to do.. I don't want it to be akward.. And I am not sure if I want to "finish" him off.. I dunno If I wanna do that the FIRST time, so how should I end it?? How long should I go? I don't wanna tease him too much, but I also don't think I wanna take him all the way.. please give me tips and ideas, anything you have.. THANKS

Hey... You wanna know what.. The first time I ever 'attempted' to give a blow job, I put it in my mouth and took it right back out...I was mortified. You don't have to have in cum in your mouth if you don't want to. Just ask him before you start to let you know when he is going to come and then you can take it out of your mouth and jack him off on your chest... or his belly.

[champloo]

which is what she will find out when she attempts it finally..