Deep Throat 101

[TJ]

I can't seem to stop gagging. I am able to go *down 2 or 3 times without gagging but no more. I want to be able to go down and stay there to suck. Any suggestions???

[riffrandall]

For help on this I went to an expert-a gay man. The trick here is to gradually relax your throat muscles as you take a little more in. And don't think about it blocking your windpipe or hitting the back of your throat. Then you will gag for sure.
The more you practice with it, then the quicker you can get your throat to relax.

And if he's starting to gag you, slow down. You control the pace-not him.
(On a sidenote, I wonder sometimes if the gagging doesn't turn them on....)

[lilone]

You can work on your gag reflex with a banana. i'm having trouble with not backing off when my wind pipe is blocked. Guess it just takes lots of practice.

[SexGoddess]

You can lay down on a bed with your head hanging slightly off the edge and have your guy stand in front of your face while you give him a blowjob.

In this position you are relaxed and may take "more" of him into your mouth and well, it worked wonders for me years ago.

You also need to relax.

[Brandye]

You say you want to take him down your throat and then suck. Well, the part of the penis that is sensitive to the sucking is the head. If it is down your throat, the sucking is irrelevant because the head will be stimulated rubbing in your throat. I have heard of "Hum jobs" but have never deepthroated myself so do not know much about that.

It seems to me that the added dimension of sucking and using your tongue (neither of which you can do with your vagina) should be pretty great alternatives.

I know people still want to do the deep throat thing. I have never gotten around to learning.

[7Horses]

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Quote[/b] ]Well, the part of the penis that is sensitive to the sucking is the head.

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That's true, and actually the top of the head is actually the most sensitive part. However, from the angle of his penis resting against his stomach the most stimulative part is right below the head. (bottom of the penis) The most stimulative part runs from the end of the head to the about 1 inch away. It depends on the size. You actually want the most stimulating part, not sensitive. With stimulation comes sensitivity mind you. Oh I might add that when you say &quot;you can't suck with your vagina&quot;, actually that's not entirely true. In a very similar sense you can actually &quot;grip&quot; and &quot;pull&quot; with your vagina provided you've exersized it to make it stronger.

(Edited by 7Horses at 2:37 am on Sep. 30, 2002)

[cool macs]

Although you can't do as much deepthroating as you can with the head of his penis in your mouth, it still feels good. My best advice is to go slow and try to relax. Try to do it a little deeper each time, instead of the whole thing write away. Once you get a little more used to it, you probably won't gag at all. :P

[kittenesque]

Forget the banana - Practice on him.

Start slow and work from there. Why waste your efforts on a lousy banana when you can watch him enjoying every inch of your 'practice?!'

Besides, he will show his appreciation more than the banana anyway.

[traci]

Not having a dildo, is there any good around the house items to use instead of one. Banana could be dangerous,

(To practice deep throat and oral sex.)

any suggestions?

I have to buy that 7 inch jelly!!

[Sarduchi]

Hmmm ... something not too hard, flexible, not likely to break off ...

How about your own fingers(s)? A banana (still in its skin) - or any similar fruit or veg - inside a flavored condom? For extra strength maybe use 2 condoms, one on top of the other.