Deep Throat 101

[toms_girl_0169]

My b/f is around 8 1/2 hard and really thick. it is really hard to deep throat. how do i practice for that. i dont want to practice with him b/c i dont want to gag and look dumb. please help.

[Junocozmos]

Well if he laughs at you if you gag or gets all wierd then he doesnt deserve the bj right?? Althought most men are just greatful youre down there. I have had expirience since I developed my technique in some interesting sexual scenarios and one involved a larger man...it was harder (hee hee) but I managed to use the side of the mouth/throat thing and it was ok. I didnt get a formal complaint. Good luck hun...I'm sure he'll be thrilled you put so much effort into pleasing him. Oh and you can use a good old fashioned cucumber.

[HngLkAMouse]

I, unfortunately, will never know the pleasures of deepthroating since I am not very well endowed. It's never really been an issue, just something I won't experience. The farthest into the throat I will get is the back of the tongue.

Having said that... I still love the feeling of receiving oral, and the woman takes it in as far as it will go so that her lips are pressed against my 'mound'.

The closest to deepthroating I'll ever get, I guess.

[PlumMistress]

I have done DTing and i've found something that works even better. *If you put lotion or lube on your hand(s) and jus givea normal BJ it has the same effect AND *You can suck and lick and move up and arounds, which you cant do when DTing. *Your lubed hands are an extension of you mouth, move them as one . . It works wonders * *Hope it helps * * *

[jussthemusses]

If you ever have to have a tube in your throat (stomach pump,etc) they tell you to keep swallowing as they insert it. (sorry for the examples) So use that as trick to deep throat. You still may gag once and awhile, but if you try to stay focused on what you're doing it's easy to adjust yourself so that doesn't happen. If you continue doing swallowing movements while you suck, your soft pallate can do some ultimate stroking so you can use your tongue for other things.

[oberon]

Glad someone mentioned swallowing movements, that's the best trick. *The head over the edge of the bed is good too; it seems to provide a better angle or something. *Here's another: remember to keep breathing deeply through your nose. *That suffocating feeling kicks in my gag reflex. *And unless you are really comfortable with it, make him keep his hands off the back of your head. *No one enjoys feeling like they are being forced.

It also helps to REALLY want to do it. *That way you aren't tense about performing well, you just do it. *The truth is most guys enjoy whatever you do down there, so deepthroating is just a plus. *

As far as practicing, I actually saw a device on a British tv show. *It was a dildo with a cord attached to an egg-shaped vibrator. *There was a target at the base of the dildo and when you successfully deepthroated it(your nose touched the target) the vibrator went off and gave you a little reward.lol

[cunnuslover]

ARE you being forced to suck a cock, if not ,you find it repugnant don't do it , when you think you would like to do it then try it ,if a guy thinks anything of you will not make any difference to him .would not to me any way , would never force a woman ,no enjoyment there,a lot of women have tried and did not like it so its up to you, same as guy eating pussy , some don't some do.

[JCrew05]

personally i dont like the fact of my girl practically swallowing my whole dick....idk it just seems kinda weird to me...but if your guy likes it go for it

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[Rawbob]

Not everyone can "learn" to deepthroat a cock. However, i have found it is ALOT easier if he's standing up and i'm directly in front (on knees) and breath through my nose.

THe feeling of wanting to "gag" comes from the SIDE of your throat ...so taking it straight in and back is easier...if i try to do it while 69ing...i find that the cock hits the side of my throat and thats when i gag!

[kathypully]

mmm my favorite thing to do.

in the 69 position either on top doesn't matter, but laying. It's mind over matter. If you dont think about it and relax and enloy it you will take it. I can let my hubby thrust and thrust over and over again. Until he cums and heeee loves it.

Of course I take lots of time before we get to that. I start with sucking his beautiful balls and up the shaft. Then I tease the head. I drive him nutz. It is so exciting to me to do that to him. Kathy