i know with me i aroused when my gf is rubing my theighs or kissing my neck

[QUOTE=Quote (Clueless15 @ Feb. 28 2004,20:20)]Hey i am in your boat too, i do little things like whisper in his ears and lick them, and suck on his toung he loves that.[/QUOTE]
It is a definite turnon to feel her tongue licking mine & feeling her suck on it. My imagination runs wild & I wonder if she is pretending with me that what she is licking & sucking is not my tongue but that most sensitive part of me.

Here's an Idea from a guy. Remember that we're very visual beings, we can get very turned on by wha we see. trying answering or greeting him at the door in something sexy, but not lingirie, like a long sleeve white collared button down shirt, or wear a skirt and go "commando" (no underwear) and flash him a peek, one thing that'll get most any guy aroused is give him a show, Masturbate for him, or give him a strip tease.

For me this works, if you press on his lower abdomen right where the shaft of the penis meets the abdomen and move in an up & down motion this really gets the blood flowing and is very arousing (I can even have an orgasm this way, without penile stimulation), the more pressure the better.

Hey i am in your boat too, i do little things like whisper in his ears and lick them, and suck on his toung he loves that. and the neck is almost always a hot spot! and you can run your fingers just under the wast of his pants and/or lick right along there too! these things get him goin and then we usally dry hump. i squeez his back when it feels really good, and i try to get my self as close as possibal to him . and i keep my pelvis area on his penis and rotate my hips for as long as i can.
these are just some ideas, i am not anexspert, and you should exsperiment with him yourself