Me and my boyfriend just started having sex. I was a virgin before him, so im new at things. He wants me to take control of things. But im not sure what to do when im on top. :confused: so i was wondering if anyone had any advice????
Thu, 10/26/2006 - 19:16
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Pleasing him. Need help.
JUST DO WHAT FEELS NATURAL, AND LET EACH TIME BE A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. Sex should be enjoyable for both of you and since it is all new he should understand and express to you what feels good as you should also let him know what feels good and what hurts. "JUST HAVE FUN AND ENJOY"
See this is all about communication... :D Let one another know what feels good and doesn't at horny all the time said...there are sites everywhere that you can go to and get ideas... :D When I come across one I will let you know...Both of you need to learn / teach one another...I WAS a virgin about 2 yrs ago, and my bf was WAY older than I...and he has been nothing but gentle, understanding...every once in a while I will get a wild hair up my ass, which will make me get an idea...hahaha...
You may want to look at some of the other information on this website to suggest some fun stuff which can help out beginners. Just go with what you want to do and don't be afraid to ask him if he would like some of the ideas that you find.
Good luck and happy humping!