Orgasm on top only

[and2premiere]

How come my gf can only orgasm when she's on top?

She moans wen im on top and says she gets close, but never there. Same with doggie.

When i'm on top,she says sometiems it feels like she needs to pee. I know thats only cuz im hittin the gspot.

[Brandye]

I am told that this was not helpful. It is gone. And so am I.

[and2premiere]

i can work the tongue too, so leaving her unsatisfied is never a problem. It'd just be be nice for her not to have to get on top all the time.

Sometimes she's horny, but too tired to be on top. So, just trying to help her out.

[spaced]

Depending on the logistics of things, you could try reaching around and rubbing her clit when doing it doggy style. Likewise, if you're on top but have her feet on your shoulders/chest then she might be able play with herself while you're on top. Introducing a toy might not be a bad idea either.

It's best to think of this not as a problem, but as how you two can have even BETTER sex!

[dancingdoc2]

Spaced is not "spaced", AND IS EXACTLY CORRECT. The problem is not with "logistics", it is because very few sexual positions place a woman's pieces parts in close constant contact with a man's pubic mound sufficient to generate the necessary friction. The Woman Superior position or Cowgirl position is the best and is why she is happy with it.

What a caring considerate lover will do is to reach around and finger her while stroking away. Take your cues for how to stimulate her clitoris and vulva from her reactions. Ask her to show you how to stimulate her by taking your fingers in hers and moving them all the while learning to mimic her specific technique. Add to that, her giving you feedback, verbal or non-verbal on how she is responding to your caresses. (The same holds true for you with her.)

[spaced]

"logistics" actually refers to body type and how you two fit together.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I'm speaking to myself, I just know it. But I will try again.

The Program & Body Worship

Talking with her about Female Ejaculation would also help; of course, she's close but that program in her mind is wrecking the orgasm because she just is not letting the orgasm happen because she thinks it is urination and not ejaculation and Brandye, you're not helping here with this.

You're going to have to talk, buddy!

[Brandye]

I have removed the offending post.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by Brandye

I have removed the offending post.

OMG how on earth can you have made an offending post?
You are never offensive ... lol

[Brandye]

It was addressed to adjusting male expectations; virtually identical to many others I have posted on orgasms for women. Maybe I am getting tired of this.