Communicating during sex

[CrazyCraveman]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Pay close enough attention and you will not have to ask.

Two thumbs up!

If the man, and/or woman for all that goes...is in "tune" with his/her partner, you'll know if he/she is enjoying what ever it is you're doing.

[CrazyCraveman]

Just like to add...communication is a very, make that extremely, important part in having great sex!

[LickMyGamete]

Originally Posted by Brandye

This thread demonstrates why I prefer women partners - we "just know" with each other.

Can you really blame us for not having vaginas?

[Gspot Specialist]

One way only my friend. Virgina -> Anus. Never Anus -> Virgina, you can give her UTI by doing that.

[CleverName]

"Gspot Specialist"- Please stop posting bad/irrelevant posts.

[mikkiji]

Maybe it's the kind of guy I am, but I've never had to ask, I've always been with women who let me know, either verbally, "yes, like that, keep doing that" or "faster, harder, slower", stuff like that, or vocally but not verbally, with moans, sighs, etc., or by taking my hand and just moving it to where she wanted it. It's nice that way--she tells me without my having to ask!
Michael

[e_room_matt]

After 10 years together I never have to ask what she likes, but she has never been verbal. Unfortunately I am extremely auditory centric (often can't come unless she asks me to).

She makes deeply restrained noises when she comes, but pretty much bites her lips as much as possible.

I don't know what to do in this regard. She gets that it is important to me and willing to make the necessary verbage to get me off, but that is all. Now that we have kids in the house I think it is all the more excuse for her to keep the noise to a minimum.

Assuming quantity and quality of her orgasms isn't the problem, anybody have any other ideas?

[EvilEvilKitten]

The Program is a sticky post found elsewhere in this forum will help solve a great many problems - including this one.

[e_room_matt]

I have followed your advice with vigor EEK, she says she uncomfortable with all that attention on her body (she is intimacy centric), and again, orgasm quantity (and I can only assume quality) isn't a problem.

I haven't given up hope (or trying) but I've just been forced to largely accept my wife for the reserved prude she is. I am just trying to focus on maintaining the quality of our sex to the degree possible. I fear she will be one of those "sex is for young people" people by the time she is fifty.

I love her to death, but I wished we matched up better sexually.

[toxic.kiss]

I don't like talking during sex. It makes me feel awkward. Idk, I just don't think of talking during the act. Most of the time, I'm at a loss for words. But, I have absolutely no problem talking about the good and the bad, afterwords. =)