being the best partner you can be

[darkemo]

how can i be the best i can, im a virgin and i dont want to seem like a downer when my first comes, so i have some questions

do i shave or keep my pubic hair trimmed?

how do i keep my other body hair in line so my pubic dosent look weird

how do i keep my gf happy while in sex and how do i give her the best orgasm she has ever had?

oh i also have diffrent questions.

when i masterbate i dont get as much pleasure as i used to, how do i make it better?

how do i do anal masterbation right?

plz try to awnser as many as you can im completly clueless X.X

[EvilEvilKitten]

Plesase read the articles in the INDEX as many of your questions have been answered many times before.

[dancingdoc2]

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Originally Posted by darkemo

how can i be the best i can, im a virgin and i dont want to seem like a downer when my first comes, so i have some questions

do i shave or keep my pubic hair trimmed?

Most people do not shave or trim so why not just leave things as they are until you get to know the girl better?

how do i keep my other body hair in line so my pubic dosent look weird

Shaving? Sissors? Trimmer? Leave well enough alone as it probably doesn't much matter in the dark.

how do i keep my gf happy while in sex and how do i give her the best orgasm she has ever had?

We do not give orgasms away. Each person is responsible for his/her own. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help our partner achive them.
Line #2: Keep her happy by being attentive to her wants, needs, and, desires, romantic and in everyday life.
Line #3: Do you know if your girlfriend is orgasmic or has she yet to learn? If she has yet to learn to masturbate and climax regularly and consistently, she must do this first. Encourage her to read the series of articles on this topic.

oh i also have diffrent questions.
when i masterbate i dont get as much pleasure as i used to, how do i make it better?

Read the articles on the matter. Masturbate less often and/or less frequently. It's a balancing act between managing pleasure and stress and maximizing pleasure in both cases.

how do i do anal masterbation right?

There is an article on this listed in the Index, entitled "Playing Ball" as it primarily deals with prostate massage and squeezing the testicles.

plz try to awnser as many as you can im completly clueless X.X

You are not alone and one of many who write in for information. This is why the articles were written. Please read them all as knowledge is empowering. I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[Brandye]

You do not ask the most important two questions:

How do you protect yourself?
How do you protect your partner?

Follow Evil's advice and then compose some meaningful questions rather than "tell me everything."

[Guitar Guy]

Brandye's post says it all. You should be concerned with you and your partners safety before worrying about pleasure and other issues like that which work out as you go along. It's much better to be prepared by using birth control then worrying about possible pregnancy if nothing is used. Once you have your birth control methods talked out and ready to be used (condom and bc pills for example), then sex will become less worrysome and more fun. Then you can explore you and your partners bodies to make sex much more enjoyable and not have to worry about a thing!