In the wrong gear

[horneydick]

Maybe a coment from the females, when i am making love I like to take time to relly in joy it. Doing what ever it takes to please the women first. I can always cum later. Question is i find that most of my females partners are trying to be done faster than i want to be. I have had them ask me if I had cum yet, or thought they cant satesfy me. I am all for a quicky now and then. To me thats the differences between making love and fucking.

[dancingdoc2]

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> Question is i find that most of my females partners are trying to be done faster than i want to be.

Hint #1: Help your partner to enjoy an orgasm first before you, and if it is her wish, after you(rs)
Hint #2: Keep stroking & thrusting to ~ten minutes or less; take one or more breaks returning to making out, then continue on

> I have had them ask me if I had cum yet, or thought they cant satesfy me.

Hint #3: Making love is not what we do to each other; it is what we do with and for each other. Communication is key! Feedback on how we are responding to his/her caresses is also important.

Please read the articles listed in the Index. Knowledge is empowering.
If your partner believes she is not or cannot satisfy you, ask yourself why? More than likely it is because she requires guidence. The same holds true for you with her in reverse. This is covered in detail, also.

Do the reading and then feel free to ask for additional information or clarification when necessary. We are here to help.

-doc

[lnt1103]

You know how, some men measure their performance in bed by how well they're able to please their partner?

So do some women. And given that men's engines don't seem to need quite as much revving as women's do, she probably starts to wonder if SHE'S 'in the wrong gear'. Also, not all men take as much of a 'lady's first' attitude as you do. Some only care about her climax because they figure it will lead to his.

Now, me and T, the vast majority of the time I get to go first, unless it's that time of the month or he's just really hankering for a bj. But usually, once I've had a few O's, it's like wait a second, I just remembered that I'm not the only one in the room, it's your turn.

[EvilEvilKitten]

It seems you have been going out with women who think they can only orgasm once. Most women can, in fact, enjoy many more than one. But if they think they can only have one at a time, they may want you to finish up so they can get a bit of rest and do it all over again so they can have more orgasms.

or

They're bored/tired/dry. Do you just focus upon the penetration or do you multi-task by also doing some body worshipping during penetration? Do you move the stimulation from one internal hotspot to another during penetration so as to not 'max out' or 'overload' each hotspot?

Please review the sticky post entitled The Program found elsewhere on this forum.