Really would like some help!

[dolllfacee]

First of all, im 17 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for a long time and i really love him. We've been having sex for about 6 months now but have done other sexual things before that.

The problem is, he's never made me orgasm! I've had them before but not from him, and it hasn't been a problem before becuase i love the sex with him and all the other stuff but lately it's been bugging me because i want to.

Im the first girl he's been with, so he cums prtty quick wen we do it. We do do foreplay but i think he may be impatient.

Does anyone have any suggestions???? Should i let him kno it bugs me when he already sortof beats himself up over it...

Thanks guys! xo

[wet_suit_one]

I'll leave this one for the ladies.

My first bit of advice though (I can't resist) is to masturbate, masturbate, masturbate!

There's a great song about masturbation, but I can't bring it to mind right now.

[Rouge]

1. Get used to playing with yourself so that you know what gets you off

2. As EEK says, YOU are responsible for your O, NOT him.

3. Adding pressure on him to make you cum will have the opposite effect (doesn't mean lie to him, just don't make a big deal unless he stops caring if you cum or not).

4. Have you had an orgasm before? If not, there is a chance that you may never have one (DON'T stop trying, there's a larger chance that you can and WILL). A percentage of women cannot reach orgasm.

[VanellaSchnella]

Just make him read this forum and other the other pleasing her tips on this site. Also have him train himself not to cum quick. Awhile ago when I masturbated id cum in about 2 minutes..then I realized that wouldnt be a good thing when I was with a girl. So I started to use the stop and go method and other methods and it worked within 2 or 3 weeks. Now I can go for a pretty long time..long enough that i dont wanna try to find out. So really have him educate himself. Also foreplay is super important, including the part before he touches your genitals.. actually I thought my gf was on her period the other day and she doesnt like me to touch her then so when were just having a hot make out session and I was playin with her tits and ass and she was touchin my dick. Well after she gave me head for about 5 min she took off her pants and her underwear was soaked beyond belief... then I was like woops then fingered her until she orgasmed because we didnt have a condom..but it was a stronger orgasm than usual and it shows how important making out and stuff is. Also like the poster above said..masturbate so you know what you like..then tell him what you like.. and when something feels great or doesnt feel good at all please do let him know.

[EvilEvilKitten]

THIS is YOUR problem NOT HIS.

All a man can do is assist but if she doesn't, or cannot, orgasm there's NOTHING he can do to make her orgasm.

So, WHY aren't you orgasming?
I strongly encourage you to stop annoying him and start thinking about what's going on in your own head that is stopping you from having an orgasm.

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