Help?

[Hornychick]

I have never had a real orgasm with y boyfriend during sex or oral sex...I only ever orgasm when I pleasure myself?? I still get some pleasure when we have sex but I never get there! what can my boyfriend do to make me orgasm?

[dancingdoc2]

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For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?

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[VanellaSchnella]

Help him to figure out what you like best and dont like at all. Have him read this board..and really concentrate on the feelings and the moment..but dont stress.

[EvilEvilKitten]

HEY - it isn't his job to give you orgasms - it is YOURS.
So, WHY aren't you orgasming?

[maxrep]

Originally Posted by Hornychick

I have never had a real orgasm with y boyfriend during sex or oral sex...I only ever orgasm when I pleasure myself?? I still get some pleasure when we have sex but I never get there! what can my boyfriend do to make me orgasm?

I GUARANTEE if I went down on you babe you would climax!

[Brandye]

You are still in the learning phase. You have made the biggest step in learning how to please yourself. What has that taught you that you can pass on to your b/f or do yourself whilst he is available. Your orgasm is yours and you should not think in terms of anyone giving you one.

Remember that about a quarter of all women never experience orgasm and keep yourself orgasmic self in perspective. Just as you learned to do it yourself, you will learn how to get there with partner. Practice.

Pay no attention to the previous post. My experience has been that those men who talk about their prowess the most are the least likely to meet expectations. I, too, have been guaranteed (most women have) to my great disappointment.

[2little]

the same answer as above.
you know how to have the big "O" but your man doesn't have a clue. show him, it could be used as foreplay. if not. let him have sex with you, after he leaves, make yourself happy. than your both happy.

[Threads Of Fantasy]

The best thing to do is just to tell him that the sex feels good but he isn't making you orgasm. Teach him the steps, tell him, show him what you want him to do. He might or might not feel embarrassed but if you really want him to make you orgasm let him know what turns you on. Every time I have sex with a girl, I always ask her as we're having sex what feels good, what feels right, what she likes etc. My goal is to give the girl the most memorable sex.

[theus]

When you determine what pleases you through masturbation, foreplay or sex tell your boyfriend in the sexiest way possible.... When your boyfriend knows how to give you an orgasm you shouldn't have a problem anymore.

[Brandye]

NO. Read all the above. Your b/f does not GIVE you an orgasm!