Help?

[theus]

I used the word GIVE you an orgasm which maybe I should have said help you reach one. Give does imply that it is his responsiblity. However, even a very skilled lover can be incapable of assiting an orgasm. If you are not intune with your own physical pleasure.

[gemini_boy]

perhaps it might be the fact that your not relaxing and allowing it to happen if this isn't the case then perhaps help teach your b/f different variations in which pleasure you the most. always try to remember that any form of sex should be fun and not pressured and perhaps you could invite him in when you are pleasuring your self in order for him to see what works best with you every girl as far as i experienced can be different in the way she achieves orgasm. good luck and hopefully this was some help.

[Brandye]

"perhaps" nonsense. Go back to my first post in this thread.

[gemini_boy]

I find my self corrected it seems. but still was only trying to help. keep up the helpful posts Brandye

[nickvjones]

talk to each other about what you like and what turns you on! and make some suggestions. We should see if i could make you have an orgasim. have him got to sexhealthguru dot com. that website has good info.

[YippieSkip]

Mine does Brandye :9!

[nickvjones]

you can hook up with me!

[EvilEvilKitten]

The partner ASSISTS but does not give a person orgasms. If he/she does not want to have an orgasm there is nothing anyone can do (other than a cattle prod up the backside) to make him/her have an orgasm.

Because there is a mental & emotional component to having an orgasm as well as a physical component.

Since women do not have a refractory period during which they 'reload', women can go on having orgasms for HOURS and their bodies are built to handle this level of stimulation.

This has led to 'issues' which we can discuss later but masculine fear and jealousy over this one point explains a great many things.