Trying to bring variety

[Jerseyboy]

I'm 17 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months, although we've known and liked each other for about the past 7 years (I know took us long enough) Either way I am completely crazy for her and my greatest ambition is to ring her happiness and pleasure. I enjoy giving her oral and have gotten good at it, giving her an orgasm every time, but she is telling me that she wishes to have one while we are actually having sex. I searched around and can't seem to find anything that fits to get her over. I was hoping to see if any of you out there have any advice to help me either improve my stamina or to suggest a position that will cause more direct contact with her g-spot.

Thank you in advance for any advice you can give.

[Brandye]

Evidently you did not read all those posts that give the data on female orgasm. About one-quarter of us regularly and frequently reach orgasm through penetration and thrusting. That means three-quarters do not. She is still learning and may the two of you may well achieve this but there are no magical ways to make it happen.

She has not had a G-Spot orgasm and it is likely that very few women ever do. Those are most often not associated with penile penetration. The clitoris is still the focal point for stimulation. Positions that are comfortable for both of you allowing the greatest relaxation and stimulation need to be found by each couple. Just keep practicing, do not have over blown expectations and things will work out.

[dancingdoc2]

Please read this thread that I just replied to before yours.

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles, that discuss the questions and concerns most often asked. If you go to the site's Home page, you will find even more information as well as illustrated animated sexual positions.

I recommend that the two of you read these articles and then discuss the information. Knowledge is empowering. Afterward, please do not hesitate to ask questions, this is why the site exists.

I hope this is of help.

[EvilEvilKitten]

*sigh* I write, I write, and still you all are so not getting the message.

Do The Program. Work at it, taking your time with each step, make your transitions smooth, and pay attention to your partner's body.

In order to access her G-Spot using your penis you have to SIT UP between her thighs and use SMALL movements while aiming up and being GENTLE about it. It is a question of angles. Geometry, remember?

You only assist her to have orgasms, you don't give them to her nor do you make her have one.