Does this seem unfair?

[Reticulum]

You should get him to go down on you first, then you finish him off with your mouth.

[TEMI]

I think i will go with EvilEvilkitten, She is proffessional. Make it a point of discussion, he want to be selfish. one good turn deserves another they say! If you refuse him he will know how it means to refuse one's desire. let him feel the pain you feel. 1LUV

[ghost lover]

I too have done the selfish deed of take and not give! So I just started to have her blow me until I'm just about there, then I'm right turned on and ready so I will eagerly eat her out. Then we do it, or I masturbate, or she gets me off with her mouth. I find this works for me. I hope it helps. Also I agree with the statment

"until he shapes up, no more BJ's for him."

[AndreaNeedsham]

Damn what a selfish prick!!!! I would just stop giving him oral and see how he likes it. Rub it in his face a little too.

[Gibson52]

You have bee cheated. Your BF needs to please you first. If he doesn't and you really what this to change....better not give in to him till he learns what it takes to be your man. He should want to please you first....so no more BJ's till he changes. Stand your ground.

[maxjunk]

Yes, it does sound quite unfair. I think my girlfriend would've dumped me by now if I had refused oral sex. Just tell him no more bj's til he licks ya down.

[gemini_boy]

I personaly prefer going down on the girl I'm with but still i do find it unfair for you to give and not receive I'm with Brandye on this one no more Bj's till hes earned it

[Gibson52]

Make him give your oral before you have sex with him again. Or tell him your not in the mood just to have plain ole sex you want something special this time for you......oral. He is taking advantage of you, or your giving him an opportunity to prove he is not.

[Caramel_Gal_Loves_Vanilla]

Dont give him anymore blowies untile he returns the favour, he sounds selfish to me.

[Prabs]

Its Unfair,.... Ask your partner to first perform oral on you before you return the Favor.

Originally Posted by fitzas

Last night after I gave my boyfriend oral sex I was feeling rather horny myself so asked if he could return the favour, his response was he was to tired. Lately we never seem to have sex during the week but alot of the time i'll give him a blow job eaither because he asked me or i'll do it because I know it makes him feel good.

He has never returned the favour or offered to give me oral just for the sake of it so I asked him and all he said was after he cums hes to tired or he just wants to sleep. He will only give me oral if we have sex.

I cant help but feel a little cheatd here

This looks exactly opposite to my case, I always give oral to my wife and never expect return from her,.... in a month on a average i give oral to my wife about 10 - 15 times. When it comes to her, I don't even remember when she gave oral to me,..... on an average twice a month. but still I love her and love to give her Oral......