Liking vs Loving oral

[20121]

I love giving oral rather than receiving. I like receiving oral sex but just LIKE. I don't love it. I can't love it. I cannot say "OMG" for it. I don't believe my bf is bad at oral sex, though. Is it abnormal?

[sania]

Originally Posted by 20121

I love giving oral rather than receiving. I like receiving oral sex but just LIKE. I don't love it. I can't love it. I cannot say "OMG" for it. I don't believe my bf is bad at oral sex, though. Is it abnormal?

It seems very confusing. What do you want to know? Eventhough you don't enjoy, if your hubby loves it you can do bcoz it is a starter. Once you warm up you partner, he can do other tricks ( may not be oral ) which you like. Perhaps you can share those things which you like and you get to after making your hubby HOT. You can share with us. Its not that you start with oral and finish with it. Giving oral is like accepting his malehood, his love, his satisfaction, his expectation and so on. Many girls enjoy it. But mainly enjoyment comes because you see your hubby happy.

[maupassant]

I am just a bit confused here. I think the point that is being made is that the lady likes giving the bf oral, but is not keen on the the bf going down on her. So my belief is that if you don't like, you say so. Maybe things will change. Good luck anyway.

[lnt1103]

I don't think it's abnormal. You really enjoy pleasuring your bf in this way, and that's great. OK, so receiving it is not the be all and end all for you--that's ok. We each have our own things that we really love. Yours is just different from his.

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

I don't think it's abnormal. You really enjoy pleasuring your bf in this way, and that's great. OK, so receiving it is not the be all and end all for you--that's ok. We each have our own things that we really love. Yours is just different from his.

And this is what I was trying to say, but I reckon you expressed it better.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Nah, she was saying she likes cunnilingus but doesn't really LOVE it and that's okay. There's no law saying she has to LOVE anything in particular.

[whyyknott]

Lucky boyfriend to have a girl that loves giving oral. I love giving oral to my wife and try to do it as often as possible. She doesn't have the same love of giving oral so I give much more than receive. I'm just glad she loves receiving so I can enjoy my love of going down on her. Maybe later on she will enjoy cunnilingus more, maybe not, as enjoyment of different positions or play change over time.

[20121]

Thank you for the replies. I'm new at sex, which is very obvious. It's just that I hear and see "every woman" loves cunnilingus so much, and I felt bizarre. Why couldn't I felt that? Was there something wrong with me? It is a still complicated issue for me, but I'm a bit relieved with these answers. Maybe I will start "loving it" with time. Who knows..