Different Orgasim Points

[luvyhubby]

I am able to bring my wife to orgasm by stimulating orally, by hand or intercourse, her breasts, vanginal lips, clitoris, buttocks (deep massage, nothing anal) and g-spot. She usually has multiple (5-10) orgasms when we have a long session, usually an hour or more. We are 50ish married 25 years and very fit.

Due mostly to information from this site I have been able to get her to let go during g-spot fingering with oral clitoris and she now has the "power" to ejaculate which tastes wonderful and is a big turn on for me. The orgasm she gets from this is really intense and she may have a couple.

She is not always in the mood for g-spot and I was wondering if this is normal or maybe I am doing something wrong? I shower, manicure and slowly lead up to it but she may or may be into that night. Do some ladies just have to be in a certain mood due to the intensity of it? Any suggestions?

Thanks!

Also how do ladies feel about multiple male orgasms? Turn on for you or just there. I am working on it with some success. I only ask because multiples for my wife is a big deal for me.

[lnt1103]

I would bet you're the same way at times if you think about it. I know my bf and I are. With him, there's no one specific move that 'works like a charm' two sessions in a row. Ever. I'm constantly faced with the challenge of figuring out 'what's going to really get him this time'. Which I actually like--it kind of makes it a game. It definitely keeps it from getting boring. Think of it as the 'variety is the spice of life' concept.

Don't read anything into it. After 25 years together I'm sure she's good at communicating to you what's working, and I'm sure you're good at paying attention and reacting. i know multi's and ejaculating in a woman is a big pride thing for the man involved. And don't get me wrong, it's fantastic for us too But don't lose the forest for the trees. Specific movements aren't the key on this one. You know what makes mine the best I've ever had(and I've told him this too)? The way he reacts to my feedback. Pays attention. Capitalizes on what's working at any given moment.

[EvilEvilKitten]

hi luvy

Yes, it is entirely normal for anyone to not be into any particular act at any given time. "Sometimes you feel like a nut; sometimes you don't."

Have you read The Program? There's more to life than just the G-Spot which is why I asked. Next for you are the fornices.

Male multiple orgasms YES!!! I love "doubling" men! My favorite "experiment" is seeing how many erections/ejaculations I get out of him in 45 minutes flat. Thus far: 3 men are tied at 4. All of them are men in their 50's btw. The idea is one she may find intriguing.

[seil]

Can I get the link for how to get your partner let go during g spot fingering?

[luvyhubby]

http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/arouse_indx.htm

I basically asked my wife one night if she ever had the urge to pee (while I was fingering). She said yes and told her to let it go and not hold it in. BINGO!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yeah. Go read The Program and then do that. Should have her so realxed and aroused that you won't have to worry if she "did or didn't".

[seil]

EvilEvilKitten what is The Program? Is it a book or a website?

[nuttychick]

lol i can't do it DOC

[nuttychick]

grrrrr SORRY lol

[lnt1103]

The Program is a thread on this site. Do a search.