G spot technique to orgasm

[seil]

What do you mean aisle 1: row STICKY?

I think I did read somewhere there was a study with brain scans thats showed if a woman wasn't relaxed enough she couldn't orgasm. So how do you get her relxed enough to orgasm. backrubs?

[lnt1103]

OMG STOP.

'Aisle 1 row sticky' is a sarcasm-laced comment that advises you to READ THE STICKY ARTICLES YOURSELF before asking all these questions. Every major topic has a list of 'sticky' articles at the top. They've been made 'sticky' because they've been deemed either very informative or FAQs. Put some mental effort into this instead of expecting us to write you a step-by-step recipe that you can apply to your penis.

Because if you had read some articles before asking questions, you'd already know that women, unlike men, have to LEARN how to orgasm. Your effortless pushing and prodding and guessing will not help her do that.

[seil]

If she has to be relaxed enough to orgasm, is there a massage technique which will make her relaxed enough?

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

OMG STOP.

'Aisle 1 row sticky' is a sarcasm-laced comment that advises you to READ THE STICKY ARTICLES YOURSELF before asking all these questions. Every major topic has a list of 'sticky' articles at the top. They've been made 'sticky' because they've been deemed either very informative or FAQs. Put some mental effort into this instead of expecting us to write you a step-by-step recipe that you can apply to your penis.

Because if you had read some articles before asking questions, you'd already know that women, unlike men, have to LEARN how to orgasm. Your effortless pushing and prodding and guessing will not help her do that.

Apparently that wasn't clear enough. You've been pointed to the solution multiple times in this thread. Multiple times you have ignored the solution and continued to ask questions that have already been answered very thoroughly many times over in the STICKY's. Because you keep putting off reading all of them, your current efforts are wasted energy due to you skipping extremely important steps to both her and your sexual developments with ignorance.

While you're awareness to seek help is to be commended, you are repeatedly asking others to be at your beck and call which is quite rude. This is especially true when you have done nothing for those people. It is very frustrating to spend time assisting others only to find out that they did not invest their own time in finding the solution that was right in front of them and even put their in response to their question. As long as you continue to chain more and more questions together whose answer you should already know from the previous help given - I doubt others will continue to help you.


P.S. -- You might get away with this at home and at high school, but in college Professors and peers with stop babying you and actions such as these close many doors.

[EvilEvilKitten]

seil, yes there is - tell her to GET A NEW BOYFRIEND

[punkguitarist18]

I really want to learn to withhold my orgasm's. I just dont go long enough to get my girlfriend off... I want to know what are some techniques for doing this... i would really appreciate it.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by punkguitarist18

I really want to learn to withhold my orgasm's. I just dont go long enough to get my girlfriend off... I want to know what are some techniques for doing this... i would really appreciate it.

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

Once again the answer to this and other concerns can be found in the Index at the top of the main screen.

Whether not being able to last "long enough" is the result of Premature Ejaculation or simply climaxing before desiring to, the fixes are the same.

In addition, to the above is the fact that you also need to learn a better methodology for making love. Etiquette suggests helping our partner to achieve her climax first and to enjoy the last one if it is her desire. In between the two of you can have them in whatever order and time frame tht suits you. It is important to know that women require much more time building their level of arousal than do we. So, spend no less than half an hour to making out before ever getting to the foreplay stage. Also, if you are having intercourse understand that few sexual positions place her pieces-parts in close constant contact with her partner's pubic mound to generate the required friction. This being the case, what a knowledgeable skilled caring lover will do is to reach around and finger her while stroking away. Make this the priority, not the stroking.

[captaincrunch]

fiddle with her first, then you get fiddled

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by captaincrunch

fiddle with her first, then you get fiddled

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[RedRoses]

Originally Posted by seil

just wondering, what do you people think of this video of a woman being fingered to orgasm?

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Fake or not? It doesn't look fake to me.

Does he know something I don't?

If this thread wasn't linked to in a recent post, I wouldn't have noticed it. Fun to have read it and viewed this vid. I'm surprised though the amount of preparation has been part of the discussion. The guy in the vid even says so that this is more like the final stage of a very long way. That it's the entire process and massaging prior, not simply this movement of his fingers. I can understand why viewers would be hypnotized by her movements and have missed his words, though

Whether very well acted or not, it's almost creepy how this video depicts her responses. I don't know about other women, but it's exactly how I respond to full body squirting orgasms. I mean I've never taped myself, but I know I do this. Involuntary movement, red blushing, very happy face, giggling, screaming with pleasure and the slightest touch or kiss will trigger a new row of orgasms. To me; those triggers have even become "stand-alone", as I can reach these types of orgasms without any genital stimulation nowadays

But just a few tips from my experience that I think haven't been given so far:

First of all; after lots of cuddling, caressing and finally going to her pussy, it can work perfectly with just one finger for starters, preferably middle finger. Until after the first few orgasms (yep; I'm spoiled! ), then go for two fingers. Btw; there's absolutely no shame in using lubes. But personally: I don't need any lube at the point we start this, nor do I like it. When I'm not wet enough, it's a simple sign we've not done enough warming up yet. It's either back to caressing or we could start with a clitoral orgasm.

The main difference with how my lover and I used to do this type of vaginal fingering, is the position. Have him lie on his back or side towards her with one arm stretched out. The woman on all fours with her face above his. She lowers her body towards his hand. The advantage is the intimacy; you two can still kiss during, he can suckle her breasts, caress her with his other hand, fumble with her ears or apply pressure on her lower back. To me; the latter especially becomes useful when I'm close to orgasm, as it provides major extra stimulation (nowadays; it's all I need). Or when I'm spasming in between, he can simply hold me in place like that. To him; this was a very relaxed position to stimulate me like this and he could keep up longer. Off course; the woman can stimulate him as well. Though I must confess I'm usually too much taken by waves of pleasure and too little in control of my movements.

Another thing to consider; does the lady like for him to pull his fingers -or penis for that matter- out or not? Perhaps some do. But I do not like it. I don't see the fun of pulling out, except for the visual effect. Unless I'm pushing him out -which has happened at times- I like for him to stay in and bring me to another orgasm, and another and another, etc. So far; we've not been able to find my limit of orgasms