G spot technique to orgasm

[EvilEvilKitten]

Are you a virgin?

[dancingdoc2]

> Fake or not? It doesn't look fake to me.

Many adult videos are acted well.

> Does he know something I don't?

How to make a great video.

Is it real? Only the girl in question can say. This is another reason why I suggest couples explore and learn together.

[EvilEvilKitten]

As a general rule - all pornography is fake until proven otherwise.

[seil]

There is no smoke without fire. This isnt the first time i've heard fingering the g spot will give a girl mind blowing orgasms. This looks like one of the first times its been caught on video.

[lnt1103]

Yeah but as a woman, I can tell you that you don't just go from zero to mind-blowing as quickly as she does there because of two fingers.

With smoke there is usually either fire, or mirrors. Methinks this one has the latter.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, zero to 60 is reserved for us more experienced women. But that is rather the point: you still need at least 20 minutes of foreplay for the average woman to rev up her engines even for G-Spot caressing.

Or what did you think The Program was for??

[seil]

what is this 'The Program' you keep talking about?

Yes I discussed this video with my girlfriend and she thinks she might of been mastrubating or they did alot off camera and interspersed the clips to create this. No woman can just go from cold.

My question is though, we reckon she has had some 'warming up' first.

Is the orgasm fake?

[funinthesun]

Just watched - it's the same video someone posted with a similar question over a year ago.

There was probably a very large buildup prior to this because her whole body is covered in massage oil. The guy is awfully patronizing - I don't think I've been with a woman who'd take me repeatedly saying 'good girl' very well. Things that are harder to fake are vaginal and anal contractions as well as nipple erections and the body becoming flushed - and if you know enough about your body to know how to fake that, then you shouldn't need to.

I don't think the TS has read the stickies or has much experience based on the questions. You'd be in a much better position if you'd go through all of them. The most important thing that you're missing isn't stimulation technique but knowing how to read her body and reactions.

If you pay strict attention to the little things happening to her body like erect nipples, goosebumps, the body becoming flushed, her noises, and small muscle twitches or movements then you'll be much, much more likely to not even need to ask technique questions because you'll find them on your own.

If you *really* are dead set on making her squirt yourself- then here is the simplest, step by step way I can think of that reduces chances of error.

Make sure she's recently urinated so she's not worried about that.

1) Follow EEK's "The Program" through giving her clitoral orgasms. I'm assuming that you aren't skilled at stimulating her G-spot and fornices with your penis since you can't do it with your hands. There is no point doing those before the next step since it might just result in her losing the internal arousal and swelling after the clitoral orgasm.


2) Position her on her back, legs apart with her knees up, feet on the bed. You sit next to her side sitting up leaning forward over her groin area. Think 69 with you on top but instead your knees are both on 1 side of her. This is the simplest position for you to reach the correct angle inside of her, her clitoris, and avoid uncomfortably hitting your unused fingers knuckles around her opening.


3) Refer back to what I said about paying VERY close attention to what her body is doing. You should be able to feel small twitches inside of her vagina with your fingers based on where you're manipulating them.


4) Take your middle finger(appropriately lubed and well-manicured) and work it around inside slowly with your palm facing towards her. (For reference - it's a similar position to where that guy is on the massage table). With the finger fully inside, slowly curl it towards you, keeping your palm mostly upright. (angling your palm more parallel to her body causes your knuckles on each side to press into her labia, which can cause problems now and later on) Pay strict attention to what her body is doing in response to what you are doing.

5) Curl your finger towards your palm softly while moving your hand down(so you finger almost slides out). We're starting with one so it's more comfortable for her as well as the stimulation covering a smaller area, allowing you to zero in on her most sensitive parts inside. Try that motion up and down a few times then move slightly to the right or left(think quarter inch sideways intervals). Take note of what her body is doing. After a couple or more minutes of this feeling out process, you should have a good general idea the depth and location of her most sensitive area inside. If you're having trouble reading her body, she should provide feedback. Also, when you see a reaction, try the same motion again, and then the same motion to the left and right of it to zero in on the exact spot and check for the same or increased reaction.

6) Make sure she's staying relaxed and breathing. Her lower stomach shouldn't be overly tense, which is also why her feet should be on the bed but with her knees bent and spread open similar to the Missionary position.

7) Do the same motions as before, but now with your middle and ring finger and focus on the spots inside that you found earlier. You can also circle them around, do the 'come hither' motion, or move them individually as playing the piano. Make sure you're massaging her, not moving roughly or quickly yet. Again - keep track of her body's response.

8) Use your other hand to massage her clitoris however she likes it, and, again, make sure it's lubed. Combine this with #7 until you feel her swelling inside and she's getting the feeling that she has to urinate.

9) Making sure that your palm is at an angle where you're almost cupping her vulva, with your fingers curled up around the most sensitive area you've found that's been swelling, quickly move your hand up and down while curling your fingers towards towards your palm so that they're pressing firmly against her anterior wall. It shouldn't take more than a minute to squirt from this if the previous steps have been followed well. Depending upon the other persons comfort, arousal, and your skill level, it can happen within a few seconds, but don't expect it to and certainly don't keep it up going quickly for a long time. If it doesn't happen within a minute, then you missed a step, moved through one too quickly, or she's just not letting herself(check for lots of tension) and you should move back a few steps. Granted some people might have had success continuing past that point trying to force it, but it's highly likely to leave her sore and uninterested for a second try.


There are plenty of other ways, and I really hope that you will thoroughly read the Stickies first.

[seil]

I read two of the g spot stickies. Are there any particular passages you think are good?

You vote massaging her clit and g-spot.

The guy in the video jiggered her up and down to orgasm. Which is better?

Can somebody please post a link to this 'The program' people keep talking about

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by seil

I read two of the g spot stickies. Are there any particular passages you think are good?

ALL OF THEM. Why? Because the most important skill is being able to read her body. To do that you need to know what to look for, what to do while looking, and where to go from there. The more you know, the better you'll be at that, and the more fun you'll have in general. All you should need for a full day of wild and crazy sex is a bed, bathroom, condoms(poly), and lube. Explore each other bodies and there isn't a need for "exotic" locations and positions.