G spot technique to orgasm

[seil]

When do I know when to start going faster because she can't tell me because she doesn't know herself?

How does she know herself when I should start going faster?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Do not ask me to do your thinking for you.

[lnt1103]

Reread Brandye's post about expecting a formula. You have to experiment. See what works and what doesn't. You'll know what works and what doesn't by paying attention to her reactions and feedback.

Don't miss the forest because of the trees. Don't be so focused on 'doing it right' that you lose sight of how she likes it.

[reddpanties]

Maybe this can help...suggest she trying doing this herself first, either with you or without. Sometimes when women are pleasuring alone they are able to find easier to achieve this. Just my opinion! hope it helps

[EvilEvilKitten]

Dear Red,

It is very difficult to get a penis to caress your G-Spot without having the man attached to that penis. And no, a dildo is NOT the same thing.

[Sexiiperra]

Hit her spot really hard nd fast.. That got me squirtin in about at least 3-4 mins try 3 fingers or mab just shove ur fist in

[seil]

What sort of finger movement would you reccomend to hit her spot really hard n fast with?

[EvilEvilKitten]

What works for you may not work for another. I do not make women ejaculate, or anything else, but I know "practitioners" - highly skilled men with very willing and open attitudes, who tell me these things, explain their methods, and who teach other men, usually in person with the couple, how to induce ejaculation in women.

I gave you advice from the "practitioners".
and
Yes, it works.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by seil

how long do I need to stimulate it like that for EvilEvilKitten?

More to the point is when to simulate it like that.

The answer is after you two have devoted half an hour or more to fooling around and making out and getting her aroused and excited and near the peak of her arousal curve just before she reaches the trigger point of her climax.

If you are not spending the time preparing her with all your kisses and caresses beforehand then you are rushing. All too often guys believe that girls can be ready for an orgasm by whatever means as easily and as soon as they are. WRONG. Two other misguided misconceptions that some have is that a woman can be brought to the brink of an orgasm from lots and Lots of clitoral stimulation; and, that the way to reach the peak of arousal themselves is from lots and Lots of stroking. Both WRONG.

Females of the species typically require a lot of time and effort on the basics in order to raise their passion, excitement, and, anticipation to the brink. This is done through lots of making out--Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting, all before reaching the Foreplay stage. It is rarely accomplished from spending 20 minutes stroking away during intercourse OR fingering her clitoris, G-spot, or one of her other hotspots for prolonged periods of time.

There is some conjecture as to whether or not the G-spot even exists. I belong to the school of thought that says it does. The tissue involved has the same origin as our prostate gland. That said, stimulating the -spot should yield the same results, that being to help jumpstart her orgasm by augmenting the feelings she receives from other forms of stimulating caresses.

Work together, explore, and give each other feedback on how both of you are responding to each others caresses and for what you need now/next. None of us are mind readers. As for women, their responses to being stimulated are in a constant state of flux and may very well be different today than last time. The same can be said for how each of her orgasms manifest themselves. Unlike ours that are nearly always predicably the same, a woman's can be mild, strong, earth shattering, trembling--or not. We take them as they come and spend lots of time cultivating them. So, do not rush to the finish line. Do not rub, lick, or massage "forever" hoping she will get to the brink of her orgasm before becoming SORE, bored, or exhausted.

Guys who rush toward the finish line, miss out on the journey and in smelling the roses along the way. Enjoy the journey as well as the destination.

[seil]

just wondering, what do you people think of this video of a woman being fingered to orgasm?

http://www.redtube.com/15878

Fake or not? It doesn't look fake to me.

Does he know something I don't?