vaginal dryness

[jl80]

I've noticed for a few weeks now that whenever my gf and I have sex, the next few nights she'll be fairly dry. Is this something normal? Maybe the condom is causing her some kind of irritation, but I've never noticed the dryness in the past.

[CleverName]

Maybe you just need more foreplay, and she has just not been fully aroused?

[Brandye]

There is an entire industry built on "personal lubricants." In other words we all have this from time to time and some women always have this issue. It is possible that the condom is irritating her a bit. Condoms should be used with some vaginal spermicide. Use vaginal jelly (Gynol II or K-Y+) and that will take care of the issue as well as improve protection from pregnancy.

[jl80]

no it's def not foreplay. i'll spent 10 min and it's still super dry and she can't figure it out either. I guess it sounds like it's just a normal thing every now and then.

[nuttychick]

10 minutes ??? lol that a very quick bit of oral

[dancingdoc2]

> no it's def not foreplay. i'll spent 10 min and it's still super dry

Maybe he means ten minutes from start to start of intercourse. If so, this is definitely not enough warm up time!

All the more reason to know if he means "foreplay" or "necking and "petting" and all the other making out stuff, too.

[jl80]

usually she'll be wet just from kissing an petting. Before I even touch her breast or vaginal area, she'll be very wet. I always thought 10 min of oral was enough time. Even during all that oral time though she's still very dry. It's like my saliva doesn't keep her wet and she's not getting wet herself.

[CleverName]

I think you need to spend more time getting in the mood. Its not all physical, light some candles, some incense, maybe some music and give her a back massage before you get into it, see if that changes anything. I usually spend a good 30 minutes of foreplay at least with my girl. If its still a problem, maybe get some lube.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by jl80

usually she'll be wet just from kissing an petting. Before I even touch her breast or vaginal area, she'll be very wet. I always thought 10 min of oral was enough time. Even during all that oral time though she's still very dry. It's like my saliva doesn't keep her wet and she's not getting wet herself.

lol I had a vision of you setting your stop watch for 10 minutes

There is no set time maybe she needs a little more, maybe a little less at times.. Just experiment... look around the site for body worship and "the Program".. and if all else fails get some lube

[Brandye]

All women have this issue from time to time. Get some lube