How long did your first time take?

[KitKatKravin']

Sorry, I know there is a lot of material on here about this, but I'm wondering if its still possible for my GF to orgasm.

She has never orgasmed, she has touched herself since she was younger though. She is now 19, we've had sex about 5 times plus now (getting better everytime), we both enjoy it a lot, it has been very intense, but she can't orgasm... We have had sex for up to 3 hours at a time (before me cumming once), with lots of foreplay before hand, and clit stimulation. She says she has been touchign herself when she's alone (at my gentle urging) for more than 2 hours, and still can't cum.

I don't put any pressure on her, and she doesn't seem too stressed about it, but its not happening, very frustrating... I've been thinking about using a toy or something, but i really hate that idea. that i need to use a tool n the first place, also i heard that girls who use toys can only get off using them, its too convenient or something...

Any ideas?

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by KitKatKravin'

Sorry, I know there is a lot of material on here about this,

Any ideas?

Hi and welcome...

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Please read some of the threads in the above link then if you have questions come back and ask

[Brandye]

If you know there is so much here, read it.

You may learn that a quarter of all women never reach orgasm; that half us require stimulation in addition to penetration and thrusting; that the younger the woman starts masturbating, the more satisfactory her later sex life; that it is her orgasm and not yours; what sites and books are recommended.

If she has a question, she can ask.

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the Index found at the top of the main screen.

You will find several articles that discuss various aspects of the female orgasm. I recommend that the two of you read each. They expand upon the comments, above, and also give instruction for girls/women wanting to learn how to climax during masturbation.

[scrovluca]

With my ex she has never had an orgasm with any other guy and 99% with me, but one day she got on top of me and start rubbing herself on me and when she was was close to cum she started to have sex with me and two mins later her "first" sex orgasm, idk if that can help u, and its very effective, ive done it with another 2 girls and it alwas works fine.. i hope u and u gf can make ur sex life enjoiable