Kissing With Tongue

[LangstonW]

Hey, before any of you suggest, yes I have read the index and a lot about kissing but one thing is missing. That is what do you girls us guys to do with our tongues. I know every girl is different so please, leave your preference.

Yes I do know not to just dive in to tongue play, and not to shove it down her throat... Im more experienced than that.

Whenever I do kiss, it is the girl who initiates the tongue use, and I have also heard girls don't want that "washboard"/side-to-side movement with your tongue.

So ladies, when it comes down to the tongue part of kissing how do you like us to move?

Thanks! PS I plan on doing some making out Thursday so please respond as soon as you can, Thanks.

[dancingdoc2]

Well Langston, if this is your first time or two with this particular date, then keep your tongue to yourself, or perhaps on the outside of her lips. Read again what I had to say about French kissing.

As for this activity, your tongue and hers can flit around and play catch me if catch can, you can explore the inside of her mouth, between the inside of her lips and gums. I rather doubt your tongue is long enough to go down her throat let alone reach the back of her mouth. Even if possible, be very careful about staying away from the Uvula and incurring a gag reflex. All this is for much later down the road, just so you know.

[LangstonW]

Thanks, not quite the answer Im looking for though.
I am aware of when to start using the tongue, as I've stated I don't force the tongue, rather the girl does.

What Im asking is what type of movement feels good to women (tongue wise). just that.

Also I didnt mean actually sticking the tongue down her throat... its just a saying.

Thanks for your time and the reply doc, please chime in anyone.

[CleverName]

Don't think that theres one special technique to use here, just go with the flow, but only use a little tounge otherwise its just awkward. Just... don't think about it.

BTW, I don't think the person being a male or female would make a difference as to how it feels.

[aili8447]

One thing that an old boyfriend did that drove me crazy was he took his tongue and ran it along the inside of my lips between my lips and teeth. Kind of hard to describe. You don't go far enough down to be in between her lips and gums but just on the edge of the inside of her lip. It always drove me nuts and left me wanting more. To think of it now makes me wanna run out and kiss somebody!!!

[AussieBloke]

All women kiss differently.. but heres a tip for the young player..

When you kiss, hold back for a few seconds. Wait and see what the woman does; then take the lead, with her style. Generally, women like to be kissed the way they kiss you.

Theres not going to be any hard-and-fast rules of "do this.. don't do that"! But doing what they do, guaranteed winner lol!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Aussie said something TRUE!
(j/k)
Now, I need a drink!