Tips on helping a woman cum during sex.

[vixen74]

OK so I am a fairly well experienced woman but I have a new partner and I really want to cum during sex. In past I have only ever been able to cum during oral and during masturbation or with my vibrator.....For those who may have been in a similar position how did you cum during sex? I love all the normal positions and am open to sex toys etc.....

[funinthesun]

This is covered in the stickies.

[dancingdoc2]

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> I really want to cum during sex. In past I have only ever been able to cum during oral and during masturbation or with my vibrator.

What is the key ingredient required for masturbation? Friction. Whether it is from hand or fingers, or rubbing against each other, constant ongoing stimulation is required. It is important to understand that very few sexual positions place a woman's pieces-parts in continuous contact with a man's pubic mound sufficient to build her arousal.

What a knowledgeable, skilled, caring, lover will do is to reach around while stroking and finger the clitoris.

The best position for a woman is the "Woman Superior" or Cowgirl position. Please refer to the library of animated illustrated positions for details.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[Pampering Man]

My wife at times, would place a vibrator on her clit during sex. Her fave position was on her tummy and I enter from behind, he G spot always got a good pounding that way.

[vixen74]

Originally Posted by funinthesun

This is covered in the stickies.

Forgive me but what is stickies?

[EvilEvilKitten]

LOL you aren't trying.

Look, women have four hotspots that when correctly stimulated will induce orgasms, that is flexing of the pc muscle. Everyone seems to forget this and just focus upon the clitoris. Which is 'cheating' and 'settling for less'.

The clitoris, the G-Spot, the anterior fornix, and the posterior fornix are the big four but, frankly, once you get a woman roaring and rampant with desire there isn't any molecule of her being that ISN'T a hotspot/orgasmic. Women are capable of having mulltiple orgasms for as long as she wants. She will just keep rolling along cruising at 90,000 feet enjoying the orgasms flowing through her. She can orgasm 'just because' when she's in this sexual state.

But a woman has to want to orgasm or there's nothing anyone can do to make her orgasm. She has to be relaxed, fully aroused, and completely into the experience - letting her inner tigress out to play. Yes, men do enjoy it when a woman pins him down onto the bed.

Please see the sticky posts entitled The Program and Body Worship. They are the most effective ways of getting a sex partener truly and totally fired up.

[Gibson52]

I think start with a cocktail for both of U, and then a full body massage to loosen you up till you really feel "good". Now have your BF start foreplay and go manual, or oral, till you are just about to orgasm then tell him to penetrate you. You should explode together since men are quicker to cum. He would already be very ready after the body massage, and the manual/oral foreplay.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Ya know - if you read The Program, you'd already know what to do and when.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by vixen74

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[Libidogurl]

Having orgasm as you want is pretty normal for a women who is so arouse and have a high sexdrive. Well some use sex toys others use libido enhancers ofcourse when they have their partner.