Finishing on her mouth

[BBE]

Well I've been consulting this forum for quite some time and now I need an advice for which I cannot seem to find answer.

My girlfriend told me she wud like me to finish on her mouth when she give's me a blowjob. Not that I have any problem with that, on the contrary, but I wud like advise on how to make this the more pleasant possible for her.

As pointed by dancingdoc2, my primary language is not English. I was indeed refering to "finishing IN her mouth", not "on" as I uncorrectly spelled. Sorry about that.

[Brandye]

The only thing you can do is warn her. If she has done this before, she knows what to expect; if not, she is likely in for a surprise. Most of us had difficulty the first time.

[BBE]

Originally Posted by Brandye

The only thing you can do is warn her. If she has done this before, she knows what to expect; if not, she is likely in for a surprise. Most of us had difficulty the first time.

she never done it. And she's a little concerned she might gag and I wud react badly to that. Told her I wudn't in any case, but I want it to be as pleasant for her as for me

[dancingdoc2]

You ask one question and then wonder about a second question. I understand from reading your post that English may not be your primary language.

The title of your post is "Finishing ON her mouth", yet in your reply to Brandye, you talk about finishing IN her mouth. There is a difference.

If you want your semen to fall on her lips you have a couple of options. The first is to warn her verbally or non-verbally that you have climaxed and the semen is about to come out. The second is for her to press her thumb against urethra at the base of the penis in order to feel the ejaculate move.

If you are concerned about oral stimulation then please read the article listed in the Index that addresses these concerns and gives how-to information.

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

[Hammerfist]

Tell her you are about to cum so she isn't surprised when you do and she can be ready. Have her block her throat with her tounge so you don't shoot into the back of her throat the same way she would hold water in her mouth and not swallow it. Let her control how much of your penis she keeps in her mouth when you cum. Having contol can make alot of difference esecially the first time.

[dlb]

Sure let her know when you are about to ejaculate. She should try to take the ejaculate as far back on her tongue as possible so as not to perceive the taste or texture which seems to be a problem for many women.

[Brandye]

Well, not quite, dlb. The taste and consistency of semen are offensive until one becomes accustomed and many women think this is what makes them gag. The real cause of gagging is that first strong spurt striking the gag reflex in the back of the throat.

If responding to a woman I would recommend holding the penis with a pressed gently against the bottom base of the penis (practice this with a handjob). At this point, the ejaculation can be felt moving through the urethra. At the moment the first pulse is felt, press the back of the tongue against the hard palate to protect the reflex point. Some women raise their tongues to accept that first shot under the tongue.

It does not matter how far back the ejaculate is taken, the taste and consistency will be noticeable. The farther back the ejaculate, the more likely to gag.

Another training device is to do it first with a condom (dry, poly) until the mechanics are mastered.

[dlb]

I respect your reply Brandye. I think different mouths perceive things differently. I have had very good luck from teaching women to take ejaculate farther back on the tongue, when they are able to get more than just the glans in their mouths. As you well know different parts of the tongue sense different tastes and the back of the tongue happens to have less sensitivity to semen it seems. Taking the ejaculate under the tongue would seem to be a solution but I just checked and it is less than 5 cm from my lower lip to the frenulum linguae. If most mouths are similar to mine I do not believe that having only the glans inside a mouth with the penile frenulum resting on the lower teeth sounds attractive. I also read an article recently in which the writer, supposedly a woman, said that she found that trying to block ejaculate with the bottom of the tongue actually made HER more likely to gag.

Perhaps each fellatrix has to find her own style-exploring different possibilities until she finds what works for her and her partner.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Ask her.
If she says yes then go right ahead. If she says no, then don't.
Life is very simple.

[BBE]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Ask her.
If she says yes then go right ahead. If she says no, then don't.
Life is very simple.

It's not a matter of asking her if I can do it. She told me she wants to do it, I want to do it, I just want to know everything I can do to make this experience more pleasant for her.