Standing up sex posistions

[jlkidl]

if i had to i would grab her from behind

[EvilEvilKitten]

The idea of standing up sex is more fun than the reality of standing up sex.

So what do you want - a limp penis or real fun?

Really, if standing up is NOT working for you - jeez! - lay down!

[jlkidl]

if i had to i would grab her from behind

[EvilEvilKitten]

You can GET one standing up but if you can't USE it standing up - then still, lay down!

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by jlkidl

I know but i thought it was normal to get an errection standing up and be able to doggy your girlfriend in the shower? I dunno is it just me or isit normal to not get an errection standing up?

This should be a no-brainer and obvious answer. How many erections do you get in a typical day? How long does each usually last? How many of these erections occur while standing and/or walking?

Now that we know that if you are typical and are experiencing lots of erections each day, many while walking around, that this is and YOU ARE NORMAL. That said, then why are you losing them when attempting to have intercourse?

* One possible explanation is that you are nervous and/or worrying about some issue or matter and this is causing the condition known as "Performance Anxiety"

* If you are finding it difficult to penetrate either the vagina or the anus (depending upon what type of intercourse you are wanting to do) then the back pressure against the base of the penis and the root structure inside the body from repeated prodding and pushing will cause penis to go soft.

The fix for the first condition is to simply stop worrying about whatever is on your mind.

The fix for the second condition is to apply plenty of lubrication to the vaginal opening (regardless of how wet the woman naturally is), and to the shaft and tip of the penis.

If you are trying to have anal intercourse, then please read the how-to article on this that is listed in the Index.

[Brandye]

I am with EEK. The human body is bipedal but that does not mean everything works on two legs.

She outlines one set of issues. Then there is the issue of relative height and that of getting the angles correct. Not worth it.

[ViceRoy]

Get a sex swing. You're standing up and she's suspended, light as a feather.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Hmmm, a sex swing in the shower. Nice idea but won't solve his hydraulics issue.

[jlkidl]

if i had to i would grab her from behind

[Brandye]

Well ..... nothing.

It takes a lot of blood and good blood pressure to maintain an erection. If you are otherwise completely relaxed, this is no big trick. Whilst standing and with whatever tensing of muscles you are doing, there can be an issue.

Physical issues could be low blood pressure or simply an inadequate amount of blood. The former requires a discussion with your doctor; the, latter requires more liquid in your diet. Drink water.