lesbian appearience

[lov2lickit23]

why do lesbians go for more femine looking females?
i have femine and aggresive personality traits.
i am always jugded on my appearience may be its my baggie jeans or my fitted hats. Maybe my masculine face give people the indication that i want to be a man (not true) anyway i want to know do lesbians think sex is better with a femine female or someone like myself? are their sterotypes about how butch females are in bed? (good or bad)? is that the reason why more lesbians are going towards femine females?

[Brandye]

Your basic premise is wrong. Ergo, nothing else said or asked makes sense. Lipstick lez or butch dyke is irrelevant. A woman is a person and preferences vary greatly from one to another

[lov2lickit23]

There is a big difference !!(yes) a woman is a person, but in what way did i say she wasnt? i was asking about sex (sex only) because preferences vary I wanted to find out from other lesbian point of views which one did they think was better. i say that because femmes seem to be alot different in bed than butches. from my experiences!! i was looking for other views on that topic

[Brandye]

That is your experience. Do not generalize from that. I have seen no difference based upon the limited personality factor you cite.

The butch may take initiative moere often but what works is based upon the personalities involved. I still reject your basic premise.

[dancingdoc2]

Aren't people attracted to people?

Don't each of us male or female have preferences, likes, dislikes, when it comes to being attracted to another human being?

Male or female, aren't we attracted by a variety of factors and personalities and traits that do not have anything to do with sex? Lesbian, Gay, or Heterosexual, people are people, likes are likes, and we are attracted to someone for a variety of reasons.