sex when on period?

[raez]

Sorry Sera, I don't quite get your meaning, that's exactly how what began? Not sure if you are referring to AIDS or along the lines of SoFreshSoCleans rather immature arguement.

and yes, YAY menstruel cups! I'll be getting mine soon and I'm so excited! I hope I quickly get the hang of putting it in.

[SoFreshSoClean]

Whoa..
Hold on a sec...First off SERA300...If your that sensitive that a word throws you in a frenzy and you find the need too attempt to school an adult on what he or she can and cannot say well then in the future anything you see pertaining my name just bypass it!
I dont see why some of you are so sensitive when it comes too a persons choice of how they express themselves on here. My comments were not made towards you in any foul manner so WTF do you care?...Im sorry did those 3 letters placed together offend you?

And RAEZ...
Any post i make in regards to any questions or opinions are geared towards the person asking unless otherwise noted. I was simply adding additional info to the question when i said the STD was at a higher risk. And in addition i didnt say women were unable too control themselves during there cycle...

Bottom line in MY OPINION...Like i said before! Its 5 days out of a month for a womens body to self clean whatever...Sorry but maybe i am one of those guys...no i am one of those guys who think a vagina filled with gushing blood is NOT worth the mess and waiting would be best!

I could care less about how "slippery" it may feel or any enhanced feelings...in MY OPINION its DISGUSTING! so in MY OPINION..Let your body take its course,practice good health and personal cleansing and WAIT!


*No need too respond to me...Its irrelavent*

[Ephemera]

I don't really mind having sex during the period process.

Well, I don't on the first two or three days, but after that, it's all fair!

[Gorgeous Mistake]

Originally Posted by SoFreshSoClean

Bottom line in MY OPINION...Like i said before! Its 5 days out of a month for a womens body to self clean whatever...Sorry but maybe i am one of those guys...no i am one of those guys who think a vagina filled with gushing blood is NOT worth the mess and waiting would be best!

There is nothing wrong with expression YOUR opinion, but do not say MOST men do not enjoy. That is not your place to generalize men, only give your opinion and not others. The only reason anyone told you anything was because this woman (the op) is thinking of having sex on her period and you are trying to discourage her with absurd information. You have no right to call a woman's body disgusting, that is degrading and insulting to many females which is another reason you were critiqued.

Giving your opinion is fine. If you would've just said "I'm a male and personally i don't enjoy it. I can wait 5 days." That's all you had to say, nothing more.

By the way my boyfriend was also the one who convinced me to have sex with him on my period and he enjoys it. I'm glad he's a man and understands anatomy & physiology rather than bitch about nature.

[sera300]

No, I don't find it that offensive...you point is best made with using usual words v. trash words. The change in vocabulary does not suit you well...Understand? I see not benefit from it; you express yourself perfectly fine yet the added words or punctuation do not add to it. It appears to sound crude.

Originally Posted by SoFreshSoClean

Whoa..
Hold on a sec...First off SERA300...If your that sensitive that a word throws you in a frenzy and you find the need too attempt to school an adult on what he or she can and cannot say well then in the future anything you see pertaining my name just bypass it!
I dont see why some of you are so sensitive when it comes too a persons choice of how they express themselves on here. My comments were not made towards you in any foul manner so WTF do you care?...Im sorry did those 3 letters placed together offend you?

And RAEZ...
Any post i make in regards to any questions or opinions are geared towards the person asking unless otherwise noted. I was simply adding additional info to the question when i said the STD was at a higher risk. And in addition i didnt say women were unable too control themselves during there cycle...

Bottom line in MY OPINION...Like i said before! Its 5 days out of a month for a womens body to self clean whatever...Sorry but maybe i am one of those guys...no i am one of those guys who think a vagina filled with gushing blood is NOT worth the mess and waiting would be best!

I could care less about how "slippery" it may feel or any enhanced feelings...in MY OPINION its DISGUSTING! so in MY OPINION..Let your body take its course,practice good health and personal cleansing and WAIT!


*No need too respond to me...Its irrelavent*

[sera300]

It's not sensitive...it's the point of expressing yourself properly.

[smallestoftheclan]

Originally Posted by SoFreshSoClean

Sorry But i been in the same fully commited relationship for over 8yrs. We dont use condoms anymore and im 30+.

The fact still remains...There is a reason for women having a "period" in the first place. Control yourself and take the days off Nature intended for your body!

SoFreshSoClean, how does the reason a woman have for having a "period" have anything to do with taking those days off? A woman having a period is not for her to have a break, it's for her body to shed the lining of the uterus (womb). Menstrual blood flows from the uterus through the small opening in the cervix, and passes out of the body through the vagina. If there was a conception then the uterus wall is not shed as that is what the fertilized egg attaches itself to.

If a couple chooses to have sex those days it is up to the couple, there is nothing other than possibly more discomfort and planning to ensure that no more of a mess than usual is made.

[raez]

SoFreshSoClean- There is nothing unnatural about having sex during menstruation. A woman's body isn't saying "oh hold up, wait a minute, I've got to clean myself so don't have sex" It's completely irrelevant. If two partners want to have sex during this time there is no health related reason why they shouldn't. The woman's body is in no way in need of a "break". If the man or woman chooses not to have sex because they are turned off by it, then that is perfectly fine. Your OPINION is perfectly fine, however you seem to have a little flawed logic that we are merely trying to correct you on and there is no need for you to be so damn immature about it, calling a natural process that our bodies go through to be "disgusting". It's insulting. Ever had a nosebleed...if so, then OH MY GOD YOU ARE SOOOO DISGUSTING... seriously, like I said, grow the fuck up. I'm assuming an added expletive will help you comprehend this.

And yes, you were very much so implying that it is up to us women to "control" ourselves at this time of the month, and that we are somehow pushy about doing it without regard to our partners concerns, and completely ignoring the fact that A) if our partner is willing, then there is certainly no reason why we should "control" ourselves, and B) often our partner is the one begging for it despite the fact that WE are the ones who feel cramped, bloated, unattractive and not particularly up for it.

I hope your wife is of the type that has very light periods, and doesn't tend to want to have sex during them. Otherwise I'm sure it would be fairly miserable having a husbund who is so disgusted by her everytime her period rolls around. I certainly hope you don't treat her as such anyway.

[SoFreshSoClean]

All this "Adult" Talk and So Many Of You Crying Like babies!...Water Under the bridge Folks...Now i Know who the Feminist and Hard Core Dykes Are.

Good Day Men...I Mean Ladies.

[raez]

Feminism and Lesbianism has nothing to do with it. Suggesting that we are either simply because we show distaste in your complete lack of respect merely demonstrates that you are completely inept at carrying on an "adult" conversation in which you express your views without being an ignorant jackass while doing so. If the best response you can come up with to our arguements is to call us men, dykes, babies, and feminists, while completely overlooking providing legitimate support for your own opinions, then you must not have a very strong or well founded opinion in the first place. Frankly I would be quite interested to see how your wife feels toward your reactions on this whole issue...but that is between the two of you.

Demanding respect is in no way crying like a baby. Also, I love the fact that you managed to call us Feminists, yet also male and infantile, on top of being "hardcore dykes" all in one post. Sorry, but in my opinion, a REAL man is in no way associated with being a baby, nor are men generally recognized as being feminists in our largely patriarchical society..there are exceptions of course, but you, sir, certainly are not one of them. Furthermore, the association with Feminists and "dykes". Come on, what are you 12? Playing on an overdone stereotype is not necessarily helping you to appear ADULT here. Though I do like to see that we are called men with the intention of insult rather than something more along the line of bitches. Thank you.