i want too find my G spot

[EvilEvilKitten]

Now you know what all the fuss is about.

Congrats!!
and
You're welcome!

[pinkblonde49]

sooo my parents never knew about me having sex,..but my dad found a condom in my room and flipped out! my mom was ok with it but my dad just left the room.. anyways im happy though cause my mom is taking me too the doctor to get birth control which ive really wanted. and im probably going to the gynetologist cause..i think i need too..i guess. people say u should.
i told my mom that i wasnt sexually active yet..cause my dad could still here us.
idk what to do. should i tell her that i have had sex with my bf or no? idk how she will react. and idk..how i should bring it up or anything
i dnt wanna lie too her and the doctor will be able to tell if i have had sex at the gyno

[weasel]

just so you know when you find it you will know, i have to get 3 knuckles in before i can feel it and my girlfriend's is smooth not rough, just have your boyfriend get as far up there with his fingers and just let him feel around up there

[weasel]

Originally Posted by pinkblonde49

sooo my parents never knew about me having sex,..but my dad found a condom in my room and flipped out! my mom was ok with it but my dad just left the room.. anyways im happy though cause my mom is taking me too the doctor to get birth control which ive really wanted. and im probably going to the gynetologist cause..i think i need too..i guess. people say u should.
i told my mom that i wasnt sexually active yet..cause my dad could still here us.
idk what to do. should i tell her that i have had sex with my bf or no? idk how she will react. and idk..how i should bring it up or anything
i dnt wanna lie too her and the doctor will be able to tell if i have had sex at the gyno

well, depending on your age (I'm assuming you are old enough by the fact that you are having sex) you can ask for your parents to leave the room where personal information like that is discussed. but you should definitely be honest to any doctor you go to. as for telling your parents that's your discretion

[EvilEvilKitten]

Your mother already knows. Your father does not want to know. So you do not have to say anything. Talk frankly to the doctor, however now is the time ot learn to keep your private life, private. All your parnets need to know is who you're going out with and geerally where you'll be going and when you'll be back. Since you still have the parental safety net beneath you - use it and be adult about it.

[pinkblonde49]

thank u weasel. thatll actually help cause idk weve search around and i still havent felt it. i wish i knew what it was suppose to feel like. i mean ive felt really weird pressure and stuff. but thats about it. i dnt get turned on or anything. i really in a weird way just wanna have some proffessional come locate it for me. cause im getting super discouraged about it. im beginning to think i dnt have one at all

and ya thank u kitten. ur right. i dnt think my parents need to know that much detail. they no i will be sexually active anyways soon soo it doesnt matter. thank u that helped my decision alot. people are on here are soo super nice. and really helpful i love it

[EvilEvilKitten]

Pink - MOST men have no idea re: G-Spots, or the fornices. Sorry to say and speaking from experience.
What you need is a 'practioner'. But at your age, it is highly unlikely you'll find one. You may have to wait until you're in your 20's to find a man with the requisite skill level. It isn't that you don't have one, you do; it is more of a question of growing into one's sexuality and finding the right male to assist and introduce you to these aspects of sex.

Fortunately I know one!

[pinkblonde49]

oohh welll i dnt plan on breaking up with my boyfriend anytime soon..we both hope ever. sooo u think just practicing alot will help? cause im dying to find it.
some articles say that only woman with thick tissue between the urethra and the vagina have a G-spot. and woman without thick tissue they dnt have one. im worried i have thin tissue. of course. i have bad luck with mostly everything in my life haha < thats just how it is for me so i dnt doubt that i dnt have one. i just wish i was like other girls and cold find it, stimulate it, and be happy.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Stop believing whatever it is you're reading. Every owoman is built more or less the same way and only the wiring and what's in her head is different. You have one.

Your anxiety to find it could actually be hampering your efforts.
Your fear that you may be 'different' is hampering your efforts.

Find the sticky post entitled The Program and have him do it with you. By the time he gets down the list to 'manual' - you should be perfectly ready to enjoy it.

[pinkblonde49]

ok thank you. i honostly dnt know what id do if i never found this website haha <:]
im new here as u can telll and idk where sticky notes are..