Facials

[qwerty12]

I really enjoy giving my gf a facial, and she claims to enjoy it as well. I just wanted to get some opinions and feed back. Do other women enjoy it as well?

[Brandye]

Short answer: not I

It seems that porn showing men withdrawing and ejaculating on the partner's face, mainly because they cannot film ejaculation in the vagina, has made this a favorite thing to try among young men. I cannot see why it would heighten pleasure. It happens to all of us in the normal course of an active sex life. But it is more pleasureable to have it several other places.

[demonbuttercup]

Ditto to what Brandye said.
I don't mind it on the chest/stomach area... but not a shot to the face/eyes/mouth.

[lnt1103]

The only place my face wants it is inside my mouth from giving him a bj.

[EvilEvilKitten]

The ultimate act exhibiting male superiority.

( as if! )

[raez]

Yeah, I find it particularly degrading when guys think that just because they see something in a porno then all us girls will love it. No, I don't want cum in my face... does me no good there, I'd have to close my eyes to keep from getting it in them, so I'd lose the visual pleasure of watching it happen that I otherwise would have if he came say on my stomach. Plus I don't particularly want that sensation on my face.. all sticky and such..much easier clean up when its elsewhere.

[sportdork6]

As a boy, I find no interest in giving facial... not at all.

[dlb]

If I am going to ejaculate outside a woman's body I usually do it somewhere besides the face. The ones to whom I have given a facial either liked it because they were "dirty girls" and it seemed "dirty" or while not thrilled were willing to please me. I did have one girlfriend who particularly enjoyed it and would ask for it. Brandye and Raez mention this being a pornography inspired act. I have not watched many porn films so that is not the case with me. But I will say that for men it might be something that goes back to masturbating over photos of women and ejaculating on the photo. In the case of a live woman it comes back to the thrill of having your own personal playmate. Also so many of us men just melt when looking at a pretty face. A woman with an attractive face is one of the greates sexual turnons so it stands to reason that a beautiful face and ejaculation go (or is it come?) together.

Evil Evil Kitten is quite welcome to her opinion that a facial is "The ultimate act exhibiting male superiority." I never personally thought of it this way. This sounds like more of the same feminist magazine reasoning that says that men equate receiving fellatio with urinating on a woman and degrading her by symbolically using her as a urinal. I certainly enjoy having my face smeared with vaginal juices and even being squirted in the face by the so called female ejaculate which i am inclined to believe is probably urine anyway. As a man I do not consider this degrading or an act of female superiority it is simply sexy. A facial, like everything else in sex, is about two-or more- people working together for mutual enjoyment.

Perhaps it is the way a woman sees herself within the relationship that determines whether she can enjoy or permit this act.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You said it yourself, dlb, " liked it because they were "dirty girls" and it seemed "dirty" or while not thrilled were willing to please me." so stop discounting experiences other than your own. You will notice that, thus far, the women, not just me, have expressed a negative opinion regarding receiving facials.

And no, female ejaculation is not urine - this has been tested and proven to have nothing to do with urine. It is glandular output used to keep the open environment of the vagina healthy.

[Ephemera]

Yeah I'll go for a facial every once and a while.

My ex didn't mind it, asked for it on one occasion, and while it was not something we did every time, it happened.