Making love to an obese woman

[Thresher_V]

I have 3 months, maybe I'll try this year....I'd invite ya, but the real Metropolis isn't like Superman's...kinda small and rural and a lot of good ol' boys....

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Thresher_V

I have 3 months, maybe I'll try this year....I'd invite ya, but the real Metropolis isn't like Superman's...kinda small and rural and a lot of good ol' boys....

I know how to fly; here is small too but lots of old people...

[Thresher_V]

Plus since it's called the Superman classic and in Metropolis, it's part of the Superman Celebration held there annually....so expect a lot of geeks in "S" tees.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Thresher_V

Plus since it's called the Superman classic and in Metropolis, it's part of the Superman Celebration held there annually....so expect a lot of geeks in "S" tees.

Let me ask a friend of mine who's a good trainer...he keeps up with all the conferences. See if he is going w/his gf.

You have nothing to loose.

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[funinthesun]

For Thresher:

It's always worth doing, because at the core, it's about the the discipline to push yourself and see just how far you can go. Win or lose, if there's full commitment, you'll probably surprise yourself at what you did/can do and that ability will translate into almost every part of you life.

Even professional athletes struggle with this, but there are always people who just go out and do it(Nike logo similarity not intended) who always end up surprising themselves and others. I say this having been one on the best team in the country. It's extremely common to find some of the most naturally gifted people in the world wishing they could be like some of their less skilled teammates simply because they know that other guy never wonders what would have happened if.

[Dave57]

Well Thanks to all of you. My wife said that I have the perfect size and I make her come like no other man has ever done. She has had quite a few men in her life but no one has ever made her guss. She is a very special lady and I love her very dearly. I will try all that you all suggested. So if anyone would like to send me a private message please do so. When we met I was very inexperience in love making and really trying my hardest to please her. So again Thanks alot it really helps.

[goodthings]

Originally Posted by sera300

The BMI's I have used are only indicators and a poor science--in my opinion. If I do one based on the day, I either fall under athletic or underweight. Truest measure is standing in front of a mirror and looking at yourself 1-naked & 2-with underwear on. Generally I find too many people are overweight when I see patients or look around. Not saying one must be bone thin but rolls of fat is not healthy.

Based on my BMI; I still have excess fat in areas I'd like to see it vanish in. However, realize if I loose to much I will look like a skeleton--even though I do weight & strength training.

To Carbheat: The best you can both do for yourselves and for each other is go to a gym together; do a cardiovascular routine & do some free weights. As you get loosing fat you, will build muscle. The more muscle you have the more fat your body burns. Additionally, diet has to be watched. You gradually decrease your caloric count and eat healthier foods. As you begin to see results on the exterior, realize on the inside you are strengthening your heart & taking stains off your knees--reduction of health issues which get worse with time & age. Each of you have to find the point of exercise which suits your body and time--the point where your body works "fine-tuned".

Similar to Brandye; I have had to get a cath into large female patients...took at times 3-5 of us to do it--trying to get through the folds of skin much less to find the urethra. Moreover, I have had large patients pull on me to help them lift...well, I am not required to be injured b/c someone has not taken care of themselves. This is one of the major reasons I left working as a RN and went on to NP school---spinal surgery from being yanked on. I recall my first day back to work after surgery; I had an obese woman implant herself into a wheelchair b/c her back hurt. I told her upfront to wait so I could get some other's to help her out & on to the exam stretcher [& why]. What was the first thing she did? Pulled me. I went out for another 2 weeks since she did a pretty good yank on me before I could back up.

These are all good reasons why people should exercise, stay in shape, and really make it a way of life. You will live a longer, happier, & healthier life together.

Wow, I hope that I have the pleasure of having such a compassionate nurse like you if I ever need a cath or help into a wheelchair!!

Oh and I believe this thread was about having sex not about working out!

[CrackBaby]

bwahaha, look at all these people thinking you're serious.

[odis85]

crack baby shut up