Kivin Method

[latebloomer]

Originally Posted by bluetide76

Not sure but also thinking about a mix of this with gspot stimulation. Maying with two fingers on right hand doing the "come hither" on her gspot while using the pinky for the contraction stimulation. Rest would be the kivin method mixed in. hmm so much to explore

Best thing I've found to date is that he hits the G with one finger, uses other fingertips on the perenium and his thumb on the clit, all three at once. All I can say is OMG. Can you say Earth-shattering. Now all I have to do is build the stamina for it (LOL)-it's almost TOO good and I have to stop him.

[ErinT]

Originally Posted by latebloomer

Best thing I've found to date is that he hits the G with one finger, uses other fingertips on the perenium and his thumb on the clit, all three at once. All I can say is OMG. Can you say Earth-shattering. Now all I have to do is build the stamina for it (LOL)-it's almost TOO good and I have to stop him.

I'll have to give these things a try tonite. Thanks everyone.

[Brandye]

If you can predictably tell the difference between ecstasy and orgasm, you are the only man in the world who has learned that. I often cannot even tell in myself. And, by the way, what "normal" ecstasy?

It is generally accepted in the medical world that clitoral stimulation is the center of sexual arousal and the stimulator of orgasm. The pressure on the perineum, vulva, rectal sphincters and others brings more muscles into play when the orgasm lets loose.

[coveresid]

I'm going to have to try this this weekend. I never knew it had a name, but can attest to it really being a great stimulation to her when I have done this. For us, she really needs play with her vulva, gentle stoking of her labia, some light touching of her clitoris, and then some nice tongue action on it. Eventually I end up licking her from her perenium up to her clitoris hood. Then some strong attention to the clitoris and continued finger play below. she likes the feel of my finger in her and continued pressure with another finger on her perenium. Usually gets her totally off by this time. This has lead to some anal play with her because she wants some pressure inside and on the perenium.

[volkslove]

I have a slight variation that works well on my partner. never heard of Kivin method when I tried this but worked out well.

Whilst I am licking the clitoris I place my thumb on the vaginal opening and slowly push downwards with slight pressure towards the anus (the juices from here lubricate the area and makes it very easy to sldie down). As things progress I apply more and more pressure always stopping at the anus. She always had a good orgasm.

Did this serveral times whenever we were at foreplay, until she surprised me and asked me to psuh the thumb into her anus. Turned me on!!! Now evertime I perform cunnilingus on her she wants the same and always asks for it in her anus when she's about to orgasm. i guess it is so pleasurable she started to consider trying anal sex. She makes it sound so fantastic I came to these forums as my interest in the P-spot has been aroused. I am wondering if i can acheive the heightened sensations she has?

I think this variation is good for couples who want to try anal sex but are unsure as yet.

[pink_menace]

the conversation is getting informative....i have learned so much...i wanna
give it a try later this evening..... as for me...am giving him all the tips I've acquired here
as to educate him more in pleasing me....

[Newtolove]

I found that the sideways movement is also good for fingering (gently mind you) as you rub her clit over the bone thats the only way i get my girl to orgasm just up and down don't do much

[gierrmo]

Speaking of anal play. Two nights ago we had a rabbit vibrator in her after much foreplay, breast play, cunnin., fingering ect., she was very turned on but couldn't get all the way there. I started massaging her anus while the vibrator was rotating in her vagina and she started to go nuts as I placed a finger in the anus and pushed back toward the rotating vib in the vagina. I could feel her anus contracting and she had an awsome orgasm. The rhythmic pressure placed between my finger and the rotating vib just sent her. It was an awsome experience and appeared to really soften her up to anal play.

[wellmannered_squirrel]

As Brandye pointed out, many of us have "discovered" this technique on our own.

The way I do it is a little different than as explained in the various blogs/websites.



I start off in "regular" cunnilingus position : lady on her back, gentleman's head between her legs not at a 90 degree angle. I then use the back of my index, middle and ring finger to massage the lower part of her vulva and her perineum (my fingers never go inside her vagina). To give you an idea, the part my middle finger's middle segment that is just above the middle knuckle applies pressure on the perineum*. (for the visual folks out there, I look like I'm yawning, with my fingers covering my chin instead of my mouth. My hand is not flat over my chin, just the 3 fingers .. looks a little like this http://dedalvs.free.fr/images/slipa/handshape/m.gif )

By massaging, I mean small circle motions. I don't do crazy movements. It's just about putting the right amount of pressure on the perineum and rubbing her labia at the same time.

What I like about this variation is that the little circling motion of the fingers spreads the lady's natural lubricant and gentleman's saliva a lil everywhere and inevitably on the perineum as well. This facilitates the massaging of the perineum (and permits a greater circling motion). The rubbing-pressure combo certainly has an edge vs. pressuring of the perineum alone.

On another note, this variation works best for me because I don't have to be at 90 degrees with my g/f's body. Gives me a better position for cunnilingus.



*(sorry for the repeating uses of "middle", it's the semantics http://www.humanhand.com/humanhand.html )



SQ




PS: Those of you who'll try this and get tempted with anal play in the process, remember the simple rules of hygene. Your fingers should not go from the anus area and then in your woman's vagina.

Have fun

[jackcollins]

well for me it was nicely explained in that you-tube video
but ah am kinda smart ,get things quickly
lol jks jks