Kivin Method

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes there is Yari - I wrote it. It is at www.lulu.com and it is entitled Superb Sex.
You're welcome.

[bWg]

If I had money I would buy it. Rough times...but they're made better by this new method ...

[bluetide76]

Ok been reading a little about this and I have some questions for those that have performed it effectively and have some feedback about it. First there is either the licking back and forth across the clitoral hood or just under the actual clit. Which stimulates better? Second, in some areas they suggested that the finger that goes in between the vagina and anus is more of a gauge to feel the orgasmic contractions rather then it adding any stimulus to her. Is this true or does the pressure add to making this method more effective? Third, should there be just a constant pace that can start slow and increase or can you mix it up slightly with different tempos in a teasing situation?
Thx in advance to any answers. I'm eager to try this, but dont want to be slacking in it since I been informed I'm rather good at what I am already doing. Imagine the surprise though if I bust this out and it creates a great one .

[Yariome]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Yes there is Yari - I wrote it. It is at www.lulu.com and it is entitled Superb Sex.
You're welcome.

Haha fair enough

[dancingdoc2]

> First there is either the licking back and forth across the clitoral hood or just under the actual clit. Which stimulates better?

From what I've read, under the clitoris is better, which is one reason you expose it by retracting the hood beforehand.

> Which stimulates better?

Try both and see how she reacts and you will have your answer. Each person is different. Each time is different.

> Second, in some areas they suggested that the finger that goes in between the vagina and anus is more of a gauge to feel the orgasmic contractions rather then it adding any stimulus to her. Is this true or does the pressure add to making this method more effective?

The pressure brings the sphincters into play as Brandye stated, above.
I've tried both applying pressure without moving, and, slight pressure while massaging the perineum. The massage seems to provide a more intense response.

> Third, should there be just a constant pace that can start slow and increase or can you mix it up slightly with different tempos in a teasing situation?

Go slow, later increase the tempo. Take your cue from her reactions and respond accordingly. There is no one right or recommended way. Again, each person is different. Each time is different.

> I'm eager to try this, but dont want to be slacking in it

And how did you get good at what you are already doing? Practice, right? Don't be so critical or hard on yourself. This is supposed to be fun. You two should work together as a team and explore and learn. Whatever you do, she will no doubt like it. If it doesn't work out quite as planned, then learn from her how you might improve your technique. Did you watch the video and listen to the narration? It doesn't sound like it.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by MissHotPants

I've looked around online to learn about the kivin method and found that it's also referred to as the Tahitian method of oral sex. There seems to be slightly more info out there if you use that as a search term.

http://adult.worldwideweb.ws/index.php?id=123

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by bluetide76

First there is either the licking back and forth across the clitoral hood or just under the actual clit. Which stimulates better?

Considering that the clitoris is similar in structure to the penis albeit in miniature, the bottom surface would seem to be more sensitive just like it is for the guy. The ridge of skin known as the Frenulum is thee most sensitive spot on the penis.

I've read conflicting reports on the number of nerve endings in the clitoris. It has been stated that there are the same number in both, and because the tip of the clitoris is so much smaller than the glans of the penis, those nerves are packed much closer together, thus making the clitoris vastly more sensitive. Another report states that there are twice the number of nerves in the tip of the clitoris. I do not know which is correct, yet does it really matter given the response women have to being touched there?

Begin using the recommended technique given in the video. Stroke the tongue against the bottom surface, slowly in the beginning and speeding up as her ardor builds. When the climax is about to happen, switch the tongue work directly on tip. Later, if you find that another approach works better for her, then use that.

[bluetide76]

Thanks for all the info, I did watch the movie, but when I read more on searching other sites they had differing variations of the technique. My g/f loves clit stimulation so this should be a really good one, I'll practice it and get it adjusted to her best liking. Not sure but also thinking about a mix of this with gspot stimulation. Maying with two fingers on right hand doing the "come hither" on her gspot while using the pinky for the contraction stimulation. Rest would be the kivin method mixed in. hmm so much to explore

[EvilEvilKitten]

And all of it splendid fun, bluetide!

[Newtolove]

hm thanks doc that was interesting actually the point they made I had already noticed, the only 2 times I was able to stimulate her to orgasm it was actually by switching to side to side movements at the right moment as oposed to up and down