The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva

[SexKat]

I agree with Filipinocuti. the mind can affect the out come of one or both partners being pleased from sex. the mind has a large affect on the body and how it acts. if your mind keeps saying "I can't" you won't. I have read that it's not that a women can't have an orgasim, but more or less that the right spots are not being stimulated during or before sex.

[afrofaya]

For the guys:
There is never going to be a more satisfying feeling than bringing your lady to that exposive "O". In fact it is an honour. However we need to learn how to do that and that requires time and patience.

I've mental preparation to work. Teach yourself to focus on her needs and don't reach for the finish line until you are sure she's safely beyond gravity.

Don,t just push in and out, reach down with your hand, let your index finger rest (not press) her clit against the top of your dick and let the rest of your fingers support the underside of your dick. The gently rub her clit against your dick.

You will be resting on your knees and the heel of the palm of one hand while your body is twisted a little to the side. You know what? you get an excellent view as well.

[MissCarmen]

I wish so bad I could have an orgasm from having a penis inside of me but I cant. I can from oral but I read that Freud calls that an immature orgasm and women have orgasms from penetration.

[dancingdoc2]

If you use the search engines on this site, you will find time and time again where I mention the fact that very few sexual positions place a woman's pieces-parts in close constant contact with a man's pubic mound sufficient to generate the required friction needed to build to a climax. This is a long-winded statement yet it is true.

Vaginal orgasms can occur with women of experience; however, most orgasms come via the clitoris and G-spot, and various combinations. Please read the articles listed in the Index about female orgasms.

The vagina is devoid of nerve endings, except for in and around the vaginal opening. This is an extremely sensitive area. The vaginal vault will give a person a sense of fullness that many women report enjoying. So, try different sexual positions and see what works.

[bigarter]

My mom was very open and liberated and encouraged masturbation as I grew up. I agree an O is a learned behavior and am glad I learned it early in life. It has made my sexual experiences very enjoyable.

[Up4fun3636]

This is all surprising to me. I guess it wasn't until I was extremely confident in myself and started to enjoy all the sexual experiences did I start cumming all the time. I remember it starting around 27, 28 years old. Thought I was going through my sexual peek, but now at 37 still going strong. I can orgasm multiple times, and I pretty much do everytime I have sex (with a male or female) but I guess maybe it's because I know what I want and I just go for it. if my husband wants a quickie, no problem, but this girl is jumping on top and finishing first! It literally only takes me a few minutes, especially when im super horny.I will state just talking about sex or thinking about it puts my lower abs in knots from excitement, so the beginning of foreplay already has started in my mind.

[Up4fun3636]

If I am on top, I can have my "inner" orgasm. His penis touches the gspot inside just right. I know the position we need to be in. If he or she is on top, it's more an external orgasm where they have to he pressing against my clitoris extremely hard

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

If you use the search engines on this site, you will find time and time again where I mention the fact that very few sexual positions place a woman's pieces-parts in close constant contact with a man's pubic mound sufficient to generate the required friction needed to build to a climax. This is a long-winded statement yet it is true.

Vaginal orgasms can occur with women of experience; however, most orgasms come via the clitoris and G-spot, and various combinations. Please read the articles listed in the Index about female orgasms.

The vagina is devoid of nerve endings, except for in and around the vaginal opening. This is an extremely sensitive area. The vaginal vault will give a person a sense of fullness that many women report enjoying. So, try different sexual positions and see what works.

[JustOneNight]

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[Ronpaul]

Thanks for sharing with us


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[katelynn]

Ok people who can't feel anything that's natural you have disconnected nerves. This means the nerves there are connected to the wrong part of the brain or not connected at all or you don't have nerves there due to reconstructive surgery such as from animal attacks i.e. bears, lions, tigers, panthers.

Little sensation or feeling means your not relaxing your body enough for the nerves to be properly stimulated you need to relax for your nerves down there to work (same in breast) and thus should masturbate more often it helps you relax.

I know this because I wasn't able to orgasm with my partner after I was raped (i had lesbian sex after) then I had sex with a guy and was to tense and scared that I felt little. I now feel a whole bunch and orgasm at least once a week.