What We Know: G-Spot and Ejaculation

[EvilEvilKitten]

Read the article. People it is NOT an issue of "her hardware" as in she may not have one (she does), it is an issue of "her software" as in she may not yet be 'wired' up yet as in developing an orgasmic response to the stimulus. Just as she has to masturbate to orgasm to learn, so too now she must learn G-Spot and fornix orgasms.

This is why having an experienced and skillful partner is best - hence why older men 'rock'!

[sera300]

Dlb;

Yes, some agree medically it's there & just as many say it's not present. Establishing the presence of an area is where a medical debate enters. You can go to the doctor and tell them your scrotum hurts, it's findable, & can be assessed. A woman can go to the doctor and say I have pain & upon exam you can establish a bruised cervix. Upon exam you can not with certainty establish a "G-spot".

Sexually some women are fortunate to find it; where as, other women can not even orgasm. This is where one moves from the medical institution thinking and can go on other's theory in the study of human sexuality.

No one really doubts the presence of it when they have experienced it, those who go with traditional thinking go with it being absent. If it's not an area which can be studied & physically dissected the thinking is it must not exist and it a theory. I believe you will find what Brandye is saying; we are taught there is no such thing as the g-spot, at least I was not in NP school, perhaps med school looks differently at it. However, if you search upon sexual theory; many are very happy to conclude--yes it is there. I believe she is saying she is glad she found hers despite the medical approach of it's not there.

I never knew of it until It was discovered accidentally; glad it has been found although it cannot be proven! It's not like during all the A&P, psychology, and gyn discussions/exams/courses it was taught or even mentioned. Incidental sexual encounters with a former concluded it's there and yes, squirting can happen but is not a guarantee. I recall looking at my ex-fiancee when he asked "what happened...I guess you really liked that!" . I was baffled myself initially, until I did some reading!

[dlb]

You know what Sera? When I wrote, "Why don't we just call it the G spot?" I believe, now, that I was reading two posts-one possibly from a different site!-because I remember replying to the question of whether G spot was the most adequate term for the area and NOW I don't see where that has been addressed at all in this specific thread. But when I say that every woman I have had experience with does have this structure I do address this thread.

I have never negated that this area exists. The article that I posted the link to was just something that I found interesting. I don't see the author taking a strong stance pro or contra the existence of the G spot. The most important part of the article, for me, was the last two paragraphs; especially the quote from Gräfenberg himself.

Sorry for any confusion.

[sera300]

No confusion. I find you are among some of the more "worldly women" who know their bodies. If a doctor or scientist cannot pinpoint a physical finding they tend to ignore the recognition of a g-spot. But as all have concluded here; they are real, scientifically evidenced or not!

[dlb]

Originally Posted by sera300

No confusion. I find you are among some of the more "worldly women" who know their bodies.

um Is this some sort of femenization here? Or am I the confused one now? I am a guy! Maybe you mean the women I have been among are more worldly. If that is the case I'll just say they have mostly been less repressed sexually than some.

[EvilEvilKitten]

<--terribly sexually repressed!!! Please help!!!

[sera300]

Originally Posted by dlb

um Is this some sort of femenization here? Or am I the confused one now? I am a guy! Maybe you mean the women I have been among are more worldly. If that is the case I'll just say they have mostly been less repressed sexually than some.

Okay, here is an explanation; there is a vast pool of women who cannot reach an orgasm at all. Of the ones who can it's difficult, finding you can orgasm through g-spot stimulation is a big thing. Therefore, if your partners all have been able to, you have a good pool of woman who are able & your techniques as a male must be good. I doubt you are repressed! In fact, you must be the guy who pays attention to his partner unlike other men. What is taught medically to students is the g-spot may not exist since many women 1-nearly half of women do not orgasm at all and if they can it's very difficult. So being able to reach that point, because the scientist can not prove the g-spot on autopsy does not mean it's there. As stated, it scientifically debated in the medical community but we are glad to have found what [the g-spot] is of debate!!!


Need a friend to try it on, LOL!!!!! What I'll do in the name of medicine! [kidding with you]!!!!


I am not certain who EEK is referring to as repressed; however, there are women who would be happy to see you success rates, consider yourself fortunate or "really good"!

[sera300]

Sorry...my computer froze...I did not put the angry face up!!!! However, cannot erase it!

[raez]

Is it possible to experience female ejaculation without an accompanying orgasm? Sorry if this was addressed in any of the articles..I skimmed through to find but didn't see anything, and didn't feel like reading thoroughly as the other info is stuff I'm already familiar with.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I was referring to myself, of course!

Of the women who find it difficult to orgasm
- what percentage of them is due to social training and to the edicts of their culture/religion?
- and what percentage is due to lack of education?
- and what percentage is due to medical complications?

Orgasms begin in the brain - in her thoughts, convictions, beliefs, attitudes.
So THAT is where the exploration for causes/reasons should begin, between her ears and not between her legs.

Yes, raez it is possible.