What We Know: G-Spot and Ejaculation

[raez]

I think the major fear here is the embarassment of pissing all over your significant other...whether one actually will or not, never know till you try, and if I'm understanding you all correctly, you probably aren't going to actually piss on him ? Though I think some women are just as embarassed by the idea of ejaculation as well. But perhaps discussing this with one's SO and having them be supportive of it and just kind of saying "well, whatever happens, happens and thats fine, its not going to gross me out or make me not want you anymore, so you can relax" would help a lot of women to just let go.

[lnt1103]

So this is why I can't hold in the ejaculate anymore....the nerve connections must have done their switcheroo as Doc was saying. The first few times I came close to ejaculating I felt the peeing sensation, got nervous, and held it. But lately I don't even get the peeing sensation anymore-it just lets loose. This makes sense now. Thanks.

[EvilEvilKitten]

IT IS NOT URINE!!

How many times do we have to say it??!?

[lnt1103]

Duh. Chill. It feels like it though. Or for me, it used to anyway. Hence the reference to a sensation akin to it.

[raez]

yes, we are aware that actual ejaculation is not urine.. however, the accompanying sensation is quite convincing of otherwise.. and I do know someone who actually did pee during sex when she finally tried to let go (though she probably wouldn't have had she emptied her bladder beforehand) I really don't think its an unreasonable fear... and there are plenty of guys who wouldn't recognize female ejaculation for what it is either.. What girl wants to have the experience of a possible bad reaction from their partner? All I'm saying is that probably for a lot of women out there, it takes both parties being informed and comfortable with it before they can let themselves relax and enjoy the sensation.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I know it feels like it but it isn't. Just as the extra stimulation is mistaken by the brain as pain when trying to become multi-orgasmic; so too is the feeling of having to urinate not what it seems. But someone did ask the question. If he's uncomfortable with it, after you have explained, and cannot accept it - time to trade him in. Because while you can stop ejaculating, so I have been told, it is his lack of acceptance and not your ejaculation that is the issue.

[dlb]

As I have stated before. I have been witness to, contributed to female ejaculation countless times. Therefore I fully believe in female ejaculation. The composition of the ejaculate has not been agreed upon unanimously by researchers.
The results given at the following link:
http://www.ejhs.org/volume4/Schubach/abstract.html
say that it is urine yet it isn't urine; urine is one of the compounds included, but not the only.
The next report of which only the abstract is available at the following site
http://www.esrnexus.com/displayArtic...cleID=17512613
is about the "female prostate" or the periurethral glands which have a duct into the urethra. This report says that the female ejaculate is more like "prostate plasma" than urine.

The reasoning of the hardline urine proponents is that taking into account the copious quantity of liquid expelled there is no storage organ in that area that can hold such a large amount of liquid except the urinary bladder.

The reasoning of the hardline not urine faction is that the skenes glands have been observed to secret 30-50 ml in a period of 30-50 seconds.

I am truly embarassed that I cannot cite the sources of the two preceding paragraphs. If I come across them again I'll post them if anyone is interested.

50 ml is slightly less than 4 ounces or 1/4 cup. This amount seems about right for most of the female ejaculations that I have witnessed, but is far from the greatest volume that I have seen expelled from a woman's genitalia.

The following site
http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/319/7225/1596
details a study involving Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) of male and female genitals during coitus and female sexual arousal. It has some very interesting images which I recommend. While the G Spot and female ejaculation are not the focus of the study the authors report the absence of evidence of a G Spot in the images and the absence of a reservoir for female ejaculation.
Now I ask: If the G Spot is not the G Spot, what is that bump inside the anterior wall of the vagina approximately 5 cm past the opening?

I would enjoy reading other members' comments on these studies.

[confused_pussy]

So how do I know that I am about to ejaculate? When I feel like I have to pee?
Am I supposed to relax and just lay there as my boyfriend plays with my clit or G-spot?
I am so confused, I want to squirt for him since he wants it so bad but I don't understand how or get the concept.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by confused_pussy

So how do I know that I am about to ejaculate? When I feel like I have to pee?
Am I supposed to relax and just lay there as my boyfriend plays with my clit or G-spot?
I am so confused, I want to squirt for him since he wants it so bad but I don't understand how or get the concept.

Duplicate post.

[madeye]

I been hoping to work with my gf and get her to a near all g-spot orgasmic squirt.

Plenty of reading material that has been keeping busy

I did have a question.

So, I'am aware its common for the the birth control pill to affect a women's "wetness" when aroused. My gf struggles with this from time to time.

Is this random/occasional occurrence related to a womens ability to squirt. Or am I correct in thinking that it has more to do with timing with her cycle than it does anything else.

I watched some porno clips on squirting, and i think im going to have to put a tarp on the lcd tv... yeesh that is impressive projection and now im far less proud of my explosive ejaculations.